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  • #1259517
    AvatarThe Psyentist
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    Beginning to think life was a happier time when I was single.

    #1259260
    Avatarbarrettone
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    @The Psyentist 539557 wrote:

    Beginning to think life was a happier time when I was single.

    Why?

    #1259784
    AvatarDeez
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    @The Psyentist 539557 wrote:

    Beginning to think life was a happier time when I was single.

    You alright mate?

    #1259380
    AvatarMezz
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    @The Psyentist 539557 wrote:

    Beginning to think life was a happier time when I was single.

    It’s certainly simpler and less stressful to be single, but when your single you always feel like something important is missing

    We always want what others have…………

    Single – look and couples and think I want what they have, settled, sharing & companionship

    In a couple – look at single people and think I want that, freedom & party lifestyle

    #1259731
    Avatarpyross.
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    @The Psyentist 539557 wrote:

    Beginning to think life was a happier time when I was single.

    Inbox me if you need to mate, hope you’re alright.

    #1259785
    AvatarDeez
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    Check yourself before you try testing me motherfucker, you’ve already tried my patience.

    #1259261
    Avatarbarrettone
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    @DeezNuts 539591 wrote:

    Check yourself before you try testing me motherfucker, you’ve already tried my patience.

    We’re gonna need a hair sample bro.

    #1259786
    AvatarDeez
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    Bring da motherfuckin ruckus

    #1259304
    Avatarknow_hope
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    [ATTACH=CONFIG]85218[/ATTACH]

    #1259732
    Avatarpyross.
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    Streetwise is such a fucking amazing documentary.

    #1259683
    Avatarkorno
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    @know_hope 541211 wrote:

    [ATTACH=CONFIG]85218[/ATTACH]

    I need my glasses, i see
    1.Valium
    2.Ironing
    3.lids

    #1259787
    AvatarDeez
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    peace pv, was fun man.

    #1259684
    Avatarkorno
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    What was fun?

    #1259518
    AvatarThe Psyentist
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    @barrettone 539558 wrote:

    Why?

    I think I’ve fallen out of love with my girlfriend. I know I must be difficult to put up with with my mental health but that was there at the beginning of our relationship. My girlfriend has been diagnosed with an underactive thyroid and it’s altered her entire personality. I feel horrible saying this (and even worse inside for feeling it) but she’s changed to the point where she is no longer the woman I fell in love with. I used to feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I looked into her eyes but now all I feel is sorrow. I really feel like the woman I loved has literally died and been replaced by a physical replica with a different personality. I’ve expressed how I feel and as it turns out she feared this would happen as she was aware of the changes taking place, I know she still loves me and believes things will go back to the way they are. They won’t though and now I feel trapped.

    #1259788
    AvatarDeez
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    @The Psyentist 542021 wrote:

    I think I’ve fallen out of love with my girlfriend. I know I must be difficult to put up with with my mental health but that was there at the beginning of our relationship. My girlfriend has been diagnosed with an underactive thyroid and it’s altered her entire personality. I feel horrible saying this (and even worse inside for feeling it) but she’s changed to the point where she is no longer the woman I fell in love with. I used to feel all warm and fuzzy inside when I looked into her eyes but now all I feel is sorrow. I really feel like the woman I loved has literally died and been replaced by a physical replica with a different personality. I’ve expressed how I feel and as it turns out she feared this would happen as she was aware of the changes taking place, I know she still loves me and believes things will go back to the way they are. They won’t though and now I feel trapped.

    This is coming from someone with little relationship advice so be wary..

    Personally, mate, I think that if you aren’t happy whats the point in being in the relationship? It is clearly having its toll on your mental health, at least it seems so from my perspective. It might be wise to at least put things on a ‘break’ until you feel more comfortable in your own mind and have your own life sorted – that is what I did with regards to some things in my life and it really helped. It is difficult trying to tackle 50 problems at once but when you break it down and take them one by one you will make a lot more progress.
    Good luck either way and I wish you a positive future man.

    #1259789
    AvatarDeez
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    P.s – WAKE AND BAKE! (even though I shouldn’t)

    Why isn’t my god damn clipper refilling? I’m really high.. maybe thats it..

    #1259519
    AvatarThe Psyentist
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    Thanks for the advice mate. A break is what I think we need and I’ve said this but she disagrees. To be honest I’m fairly certain though she’s grasping on because she’s terrified of losing me for good. I know she doesn’t want to be alone again and since her thyroid she’s lost an awful lot of her confidence. Plus she’s a real handful as it is and few men get her, she probably doesn’t believe she’ll have another stable relationship after me, and tbf she’s probably right. I mean she’s mid 40s and I’m the longest relationship she’s managed. She thinks if I get the opportunity I’d run like the wind with a younger model but honestly right now I want to be alone to get my head straight. A new relationship is quite literally at the bottom of my priority list right now.

    #1259790
    AvatarDeez
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    @The Psyentist 542119 wrote:

    Thanks for the advice mate. A break is what I think we need and I’ve said this but she disagrees. To be honest I’m fairly certain though she’s grasping on because she’s terrified of losing me for good. I know she doesn’t want to be alone again and since her thyroid she’s lost an awful lot of her confidence. Plus she’s a real handful as it is and few men get her, she probably doesn’t believe she’ll have another stable relationship after me, and tbf she’s probably right. I mean she’s mid 40s and I’m the longest relationship she’s managed. She thinks if I get the opportunity I’d run like the wind with a younger model but honestly right now I want to be alone to get my head straight. A new relationship is quite literally at the bottom of my priority list right now.

    Then just tell her that dude – a relationship should be based on trust, right? Ultimately all you can do is explain to her how you feel and hope she understands.

    p.s – replying to your pm now.

    #1259520
    AvatarThe Psyentist
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    @DeezNuts 542128 wrote:

    Then just tell her that dude – a relationship should be based on trust, right? Ultimately all you can do is explain to her how you feel and hope she understands.

    p.s – replying to your pm now.

    I have expressed how I feel but she has inadvertently guilt tripped me into staying with her. It would do be good for me to have some distance but it would destroy her.

    #1259791
    AvatarDeez
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    @The Psyentist 542133 wrote:

    I have expressed how I feel but she has inadvertently guilt tripped me into staying with her. It would do be good for me to have some distance but it would destroy her.

    But staying with her is clearly aiding to the destruction of you – to be honest I think it would do you both some good. She could come to terms with her illness and how she feels about life as well as exploring herself to become comfortable without you (as I feel that is important in case something should ever happen) but you could also use it do deal with what was already explained.

    I’d like to express that this is A FUCKING TUNE!

    #1259521
    AvatarThe Psyentist
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    @DeezNuts 542152 wrote:

    But staying with her is clearly aiding to the destruction of you – to be honest I think it would do you both some good. She could come to terms with her illness and how she feels about life as well as exploring herself to become comfortable without you (as I feel that is important in case something should ever happen) but you could also use it do deal with what was already explained.

    I agree with everything you say but its easier said than done when you care about someone. Anyways I’m now expressing I’m going to peel myself away from this laptop and venture outdoors. Maybe I’ll go nap in the park like a tramp.

    #1259793
    AvatarDeez
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    Fuck i’ve just realised i’m getting older and i got responsibilities and my future to think about.

    Need to stop getting stoned and just doing fuck all and being a lazy twat..

    #1259722
    Avatarchellywonder2.0
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    ^^

    same same same. I feel adulthood crashing down on me!

    I’m 2 exams away from finishing uni and my parents keep pressuring me to apply for boring corporate jobs I’d def rather not do.

    I really miss being 16 and carefree and partying and fucking about

    #1259406
    AvatarIzbeckistan
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    I looked at the date on my phone the other day and realized it was my birthday.

    Needless to say so far I have enjoyed my twenties far more than my teenage years.

    #1259723
    Avatarchellywonder2.0
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    @Izbeckistan 542360 wrote:

    I looked at the date on my phone the other day and realized it was my birthday.

    Needless to say so far I have enjoyed my twenties far more than my teenage years.

    Wait.. 🙁 your birthday has passed?

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