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    General Lighting
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      @extraslim – the way life is these days its not at all uncommon to end up with most of your friends being online. Even though I have a fair few real life friends working means I don’t always get to see them (and they are busy too..)

      If I still lived where I used to I would have cycled over to visit you at some point and have a chat, its only about 26 miles from my old house and I used to regularly do that route to get to raves..

      #1151042
      General Lighting
      Moderator

        @extraslim – the way life is these days its not at all uncommon to end up with most of your friends being online. Even though I have a fair few real life friends working means I don’t always get to see them (and they are busy too..)

        If I still lived where I used to I would have cycled over to visit you at some point and have a chat, its only about 26 miles from my old house and I used to regularly do that route to get to raves..

        #1128721
        Anonymous

          @General Lighting 435265 wrote:

          @extraslim – the way life is these days its not at all uncommon to end up with most of your friends being online. Even though I have a fair few real life friends working means I don’t always get to see them (and they are busy too..)

          If I still lived where I used to I would have cycled over to visit you at some point and have a chat, its only about 26 miles from my old house and I used to regularly do that route to get to raves..

          I just find it hard to count people I talk mostly crap to on a rave forum as the kind of friendship that means much. Its nice to have people to talk to who have a brain. But it doesn’t feel like any kind of real friendship. But then again I dont feel much of a bond with few people I have known since school either so god knows.

          #1150072
          Anonymous

            @General Lighting 435265 wrote:

            @extraslim – the way life is these days its not at all uncommon to end up with most of your friends being online. Even though I have a fair few real life friends working means I don’t always get to see them (and they are busy too..)

            If I still lived where I used to I would have cycled over to visit you at some point and have a chat, its only about 26 miles from my old house and I used to regularly do that route to get to raves..

            I just find it hard to count people I talk mostly crap to on a rave forum as the kind of friendship that means much. Its nice to have people to talk to who have a brain. But it doesn’t feel like any kind of real friendship. But then again I dont feel much of a bond with few people I have known since school either so god knows.

            #1130448
            Tank Girl
            Participant

              @mungo1972 435264 wrote:

              Hi all ,
              Extraslim and Tank Girl im sending positive PV vibes and extra helpings of chicken your way ๐Ÿ™‚

              :group_hug:group_hug

              but for a non meat eater I’d prefer cheese :love::love::love::love:

              #1165326
              Tank Girl
              Participant

                @mungo1972 435264 wrote:

                Hi all ,
                Extraslim and Tank Girl im sending positive PV vibes and extra helpings of chicken your way ๐Ÿ™‚

                :group_hug:group_hug

                but for a non meat eater I’d prefer cheese :love::love::love::love:

                #1130449
                Tank Girl
                Participant

                  @extraslim 435263 wrote:

                  no need to apoligise, hope things pick up for you to.

                  cheers matey

                  I’m sure at some point we will be happier that she is in (some sort of ) better place :love:

                  its just the internal conflict of wishing a ‘vessel’ were dead,

                  its been atleast 6+ yrs now…

                  time for her to be at peace, she’s only the same age as marcus’s parents who are still skiing – which puts it in to perspective for me …

                  but thank you :group_hug

                  #1165329
                  Tank Girl
                  Participant

                    @extraslim 435263 wrote:

                    no need to apoligise, hope things pick up for you to.

                    cheers matey

                    I’m sure at some point we will be happier that she is in (some sort of ) better place :love:

                    its just the internal conflict of wishing a ‘vessel’ were dead,

                    its been atleast 6+ yrs now…

                    time for her to be at peace, she’s only the same age as marcus’s parents who are still skiing – which puts it in to perspective for me …

                    but thank you :group_hug

                    #1129265
                    General Lighting
                    Moderator

                      @extraslim 435268 wrote:

                      I just find it hard to count people I talk mostly crap to on a rave forum as the kind of friendship that means much. Its nice to have people to talk to who have a brain. But it doesn’t feel like any kind of real friendship. But then again I dont feel much of a bond with few people I have known since school either so god knows.

                      a lot of “friends” I know just talk crap to each other in real life.. and too much emphasis is placed on being extroverted and “American” ideas of friendship what come from movies/idiot box.. (in fact extroverts friendships can be quite shallow).

                      I know what you mean but time and distances become increasingly a problem these days. There are times I wish it was like I was back in Reading when there always was a squat to go to or a party or someones house to chill at or do mad stuff with computers and electronic things (loads of us were techie/hacker types) which isn’t as much present here so genuine online friends become more important. There are good reasons why we keep the chat friendly here and stomp hard on those what try to disrupt it..

                      #1151043
                      General Lighting
                      Moderator

                        @extraslim 435268 wrote:

                        I just find it hard to count people I talk mostly crap to on a rave forum as the kind of friendship that means much. Its nice to have people to talk to who have a brain. But it doesn’t feel like any kind of real friendship. But then again I dont feel much of a bond with few people I have known since school either so god knows.

                        a lot of “friends” I know just talk crap to each other in real life.. and too much emphasis is placed on being extroverted and “American” ideas of friendship what come from movies/idiot box.. (in fact extroverts friendships can be quite shallow).

                        I know what you mean but time and distances become increasingly a problem these days. There are times I wish it was like I was back in Reading when there always was a squat to go to or a party or someones house to chill at or do mad stuff with computers and electronic things (loads of us were techie/hacker types) which isn’t as much present here so genuine online friends become more important. There are good reasons why we keep the chat friendly here and stomp hard on those what try to disrupt it..

                        #1130450
                        Tank Girl
                        Participant

                          @General Lighting 435271 wrote:

                          There are good reasons why we keep the chat friendly here and stomp hard on those what try to disrupt it..

                          indeedy

                          #1165332
                          Tank Girl
                          Participant

                            @General Lighting 435271 wrote:

                            There are good reasons why we keep the chat friendly here and stomp hard on those what try to disrupt it..

                            indeedy

                            #1132789
                            p0ly
                            Participant

                              come on fizzbomb where’s the love!!

                              #1169624
                              p0ly
                              Participant

                                come on fizzbomb where’s the love!!

                                #1128722
                                Anonymous

                                  GL where did your name come from? i have wondered many a time.. ๐Ÿ˜€

                                  #1150073
                                  Anonymous

                                    GL where did your name come from? i have wondered many a time.. ๐Ÿ˜€

                                    #1132790
                                    p0ly
                                    Participant

                                      @harr!et 435311 wrote:

                                      GL where did your name come from? i have wondered many a time.. ๐Ÿ˜€

                                      http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html

                                      ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                      #1169626
                                      p0ly
                                      Participant

                                        @harr!et 435311 wrote:

                                        GL where did your name come from? i have wondered many a time.. ๐Ÿ˜€

                                        http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html

                                        ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                        #1129266
                                        General Lighting
                                        Moderator

                                          crossed with poly’s post, though link got mangled and it should be here

                                          http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html#post7343

                                          poly has fixed that link as well (not sure what happened, sometimes our forum does that)

                                          #1151045
                                          General Lighting
                                          Moderator

                                            crossed with poly’s post, though link got mangled and it should be here

                                            http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html#post7343

                                            poly has fixed that link as well (not sure what happened, sometimes our forum does that)

                                            #1128723
                                            Anonymous

                                              @p0ly 435312 wrote:

                                              http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html

                                              ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                              ahh brilliant. i have spent many a sleepless night pondering over the mystery of GL’s name.
                                              where my screenname came from will keep people guessing for generations to come, it’s a secret i will take to my grave ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                              #1150076
                                              Anonymous

                                                @p0ly 435312 wrote:

                                                http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/introductions/2465-what-made-you-choose-your.html

                                                ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                                ahh brilliant. i have spent many a sleepless night pondering over the mystery of GL’s name.
                                                where my screenname came from will keep people guessing for generations to come, it’s a secret i will take to my grave ๐Ÿ˜‰

                                                #1128724
                                                Anonymous

                                                  i hate it when i’m playing loud music and my dog looks at me and sighs and gives me the “turn is down ffs” face.. it’s like NO! if you don’t like it, you know where the door is.

                                                  that’s my rant for the day. i seem to use this thread more than anyone else.

                                                  #1150078
                                                  Anonymous

                                                    i hate it when i’m playing loud music and my dog looks at me and sighs and gives me the “turn is down ffs” face.. it’s like NO! if you don’t like it, you know where the door is.

                                                    that’s my rant for the day. i seem to use this thread more than anyone else.

                                                    #1128725
                                                    Anonymous

                                                      @extraslim 435268 wrote:

                                                      I just find it hard to count people I talk mostly crap to on a rave forum as the kind of friendship that means much. Its nice to have people to talk to who have a brain. But it doesn’t feel like any kind of real friendship. But then again I dont feel much of a bond with few people I have known since school either so god knows.

                                                      I think on reflection I do consider you lot friends. And my old school friends friends. I think I am always looking for friendship more akin to a romantic relationship in terms of its closeness (emotionally not physically lol) and thus have a bad habit of not appreciating what I do have (and even redefining it as not friendship). Also, my depression most definitely clouds my ability to reason. Thank you all for helping me reach this wiser and more accurate understanding. God that sounds over blown. God I have issues.

                                                      Morning all

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