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    Anonymous

    I need some ideas and you lot seem rather social, so, any ideas?

    Considering trying to find some kind of sport currently. Any good websites for meeting new people? help advice etc would all be welcomed.

    #1235823
    Pike Tom Us
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    yea joining a club or something like that- your guranteed to meet new people that way. or you could volunteer at a social center

    #1235805
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422404 wrote:

    yea joining a club or something like that- your guranteed to meet new people that way. or you could volunteer at a social center

    social center?

    #1235831
    Fizzbombheid
    Participant

    GO TO PUB…….

    dunno

    #1235806
    Anonymous

    @Fizzbombheid 422408 wrote:

    GO TO PUB…….

    dunno

    sadly I am not an extrovert so pubs etc are not good places really. Always used to meet people through other people.

    #1235824
    Pike Tom Us
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    @extraslim 422406 wrote:

    social center?

    might not be your thing. but literally you can turn up to one of these places on your own and within 5 minutes you’ll get chatting to someone

    Autonomous London

    #1235807
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422417 wrote:

    might not be your thing. but literally you can turn up to one of these places on your own and within 5 minutes you’ll get chatting to someone

    Autonomous London

    ahh, sadly those sorts of places are rather far away. Wish I lived in a city sometimes

    #1235825
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @extraslim 422418 wrote:

    ahh, sadly those sorts of places are rather far away. Wish I lived in a city sometimes

    yea it certainly does help to meet new people in cities i think. although i heard something like people who live in london have less close friends than somewhere smaller. or something like that anyway

    #1235808
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422420 wrote:

    yea it certainly does help to meet new people in cities i think. although i heard something like people who live in london have less close friends than somewhere smaller. or something like that anyway

    who needs friends when you have the regratimine. raaa:cry:

    #1235832
    Fizzbombheid
    Participant

    ZOOMba………

    maybes

    :bounce_o:

    #1235826
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @extraslim 422422 wrote:

    who needs friends when you have the regratimine. raaa:cry:

    noooooooooo. maaaaaaate. seriously. i was in that exact position. ended up loosing half of my mates tho coz it and only just got myself back on track. it definatly isnt worth all the hassel that comes with being a k head. ive got a much better quality of life now

    #1235809
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422425 wrote:

    noooooooooo. maaaaaaate. seriously. i was in that exact position. ended up loosing half of my mates tho coz it and only just got myself back on track. it definatly isnt worth all the hassel that comes with being a k head. ive got a much better quality of life now

    I guess I wasnt being serious, fuck getting too into K again. But it helps pass the time right now I spose. You cut down now then man?

    #1235827
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @extraslim 422426 wrote:

    I guess I wasnt being serious, fuck getting too into K again. But it helps pass the time right now I spose. You cut down now then man?

    completly. when i do pick up its only a gram (tolerance has come down i spose, i would never pick up less than 2 grams, i didnt see the point coz it wouldnt get me wonky with just 1 gram) on a friday night. an sometimes i skip a week an dont touch it for 2 weeks. what im most proud of tho is i dont think of it/crave it when im not on it. where as before, when i was forcing myself to have a break coz of health i would be rattling like a bitch. how are you doing on it?

    #1235810
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422429 wrote:

    completly. when i do pick up its only a gram (tolerance has come down i spose, i would never pick up less than 2 grams, i didnt see the point coz it wouldnt get me wonky with just 1 gram) on a friday night. an sometimes i skip a week an dont touch it for 2 weeks. what im most proud of tho is i dont think of it/crave it when im not on it. where as before, when i was forcing myself to have a break coz of health i would be rattling like a bitch. how are you doing on it?

    nice one thats fantastic as I know you had serious troubles with it in the past. I am just finding it helps pass the time and makes me feel less loanly. But I am well aware I cannot get anymore (unless its with others) and that I need to deal with this without rugs. I had a phase where I felt I needed it to cope with the day, its not like that at all now, it just helps pass the time. I have always found K sends me a bit nuts if I get badly addicted to it.

    #1235828
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @extraslim 422434 wrote:

    nice one thats fantastic as I know you had serious troubles with it in the past. I am just finding it helps pass the time and makes me feel less loanly. But I am well aware I cannot get anymore (unless its with others) and that I need to deal with this without rugs. I had a phase where I felt I needed it to cope with the day, its not like that at all now, it just helps pass the time. I have always found K sends me a bit nuts if I get badly addicted to it.

    yea nice one man. i wont ever stop taking it. i like it too much. but defaintly under control. there are more things to life than sitting on the toilet trying to squeeze out piss an all that comes out is slugs of blood :/ rank i know. drugs are there for pleasure an enjoyment, ennit. not everyday.
    the trick is to have other things in your life. volunteering at social centers really helped me. it got me into a routine and i met other people who didnt take it.

    #1235811
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422444 wrote:

    yea nice one man. i wont ever stop taking it. i like it too much. but defaintly under control. there are more things to life than sitting on the toilet trying to squeeze out piss an all that comes out is slugs of blood :/ rank i know. drugs are there for pleasure an enjoyment, ennit. not everyday.
    the trick is to have other things in your life. volunteering at social centers really helped me. it got me into a routine and i met other people who didnt take it.

    glad things are working out for you mate nicely done

    #1235829
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @extraslim 422445 wrote:

    glad things are working out for you mate nicely done

    thanks man. means alot. if u ever find urself slipping up abit, gis a message yea

    #1235812
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422446 wrote:

    thanks man. means alot. if u ever find urself slipping up abit, gis a message yea

    cheers man will do

    #1235813
    Anonymous

    what sort of stuff do you like doing? when i felt lonely before, i focused really hard on bettering myself and finding happiness in a hobby. you said you weren’t very arty before but i wasn’t either, i started drawing and photography about 6 months ago and it’s amazing what it does for me. i’ve met people who have boosted my confidence so much through sites like deviantart. i think it’s just about discovering a passion you want to persue, go along with that and you’ll make friends on the way. do something wacky, i attended an astronomy club for a while and it was amazing, i haven’t been for a while because i’m saving for my own scope. but just pick a random idea that you fancy trying, like knitting, skating, anything ๐Ÿ™‚
    i know what it’s like kind of because i constantly want to be giving and receiving affection and i get really badly lonely when i’m not in a situation like that. what i think had helped in the past is having passions and goals. and you’ll meet people who enjoy the same things.

    #1235830
    Pike Tom Us
    Participant

    @harr!et 422462 wrote:

    what sort of stuff do you like doing? when i felt lonely before, i focused really hard on bettering myself and finding happiness in a hobby. you said you weren’t very arty before but i wasn’t either, i started drawing and photography about 6 months ago and it’s amazing what it does for me. i’ve met people who have boosted my confidence so much through sites like deviantart. i think it’s just about discovering a passion you want to persue, go along with that and you’ll make friends on the way. do something wacky, i attended an astronomy club for a while and it was amazing, i haven’t been for a while because i’m saving for my own scope. but just pick a random idea that you fancy trying, like knitting, skating, anything ๐Ÿ™‚
    i know what it’s like kind of because i constantly want to be giving and receiving affection and i get really badly lonely when i’m not in a situation like that. what i think had helped in the past is having passions and goals. and you’ll meet people who enjoy the same things.

    i love knitting. i planned on yarn bombing a telephone box in the center of town at the beginning of the year, i got 2 panels knitted and then realised whats the point?! it would only be taken down by the council after a couple of days

    #1235814
    Anonymous

    @harr!et 422462 wrote:

    what sort of stuff do you like doing? when i felt lonely before, i focused really hard on bettering myself and finding happiness in a hobby. you said you weren’t very arty before but i wasn’t either, i started drawing and photography about 6 months ago and it’s amazing what it does for me. i’ve met people who have boosted my confidence so much through sites like deviantart. i think it’s just about discovering a passion you want to persue, go along with that and you’ll make friends on the way. do something wacky, i attended an astronomy club for a while and it was amazing, i haven’t been for a while because i’m saving for my own scope. but just pick a random idea that you fancy trying, like knitting, skating, anything ๐Ÿ™‚
    i know what it’s like kind of because i constantly want to be giving and receiving affection and i get really badly lonely when i’m not in a situation like that. what i think had helped in the past is having passions and goals. and you’ll meet people who enjoy the same things.

    I have a serious lack of passion for stuff sadly. Was considering joining the rambaling group lol Sounds like you have a healthy range of activities though, inspiring stuff indeed ๐Ÿ™‚

    #1235815
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422463 wrote:

    i love knitting. i planned on yarn bombing a telephone box in the center of town at the beginning of the year, i got 2 panels knitted and then realised whats the point?! it would only be taken down by the council after a couple of days

    plus wool is expensive

    #1235816
    Anonymous

    @Pike Tom Us 422463 wrote:

    i love knitting. i planned on yarn bombing a telephone box in the center of town at the beginning of the year, i got 2 panels knitted and then realised whats the point?! it would only be taken down by the council after a couple of days

    i tried it once, so therapeutic! hehe do it to something else like.. a car! :O when i learn to drive in a few months and get my car, make me a cool multicoloured car cover thingy! ๐Ÿ˜€ driving around in something like that would be badass.

    @extraslim 422468 wrote:

    I have a serious lack of passion for stuff sadly. Was considering joining the rambaling group lol Sounds like you have a healthy range of activities though, inspiring stuff indeed ๐Ÿ™‚

    really? is there nothing? do you not think about certain things and wonder how they work or wish you knew all about it? i get like that when i look at the night sky, i think that’s where the astronomy came from. rambling would be fun ๐Ÿ™‚ relaxing and you’d meet new people. there’s so much you could do, must be something you want to try ๐Ÿ˜›

    #1235817
    Anonymous

    @harr!et 422475 wrote:

    really? is there nothing? do you not think about certain things and wonder how they work or wish you knew all about it? i get like that when i look at the night sky, i think that’s where the astronomy came from. rambling would be fun ๐Ÿ™‚ relaxing and you’d meet new people. there’s so much you could do, must be something you want to try ๐Ÿ˜›

    I dont think there are many things, used to wait for the right thing to come along. It never came along. New tatic is to just try lots of things and see what happens, hence the thread. Need some inspiration :bounce_fl:bounce_g:

    #1235818
    Anonymous

    @extraslim 422478 wrote:

    I dont think there are many things, used to wait for the right thing to come along. It never came along. New tatic is to just try lots of things and see what happens, hence the thread. Need some inspiration :bounce_fl:bounce_g:

    hmmm well! here’s a suggestion for you ^^
    scopes tend to cost quite a lot of money, but you don’t need those to get started. just buy a book on the night sky and when it gets a bit warmer and clearer, find a nice field in the middle of nowhere and sit out and watch the stars and try and identify some of the constellations. it’s one of the most magical feelings in the world. combined with k, it’s super magical. but i have endless amount of patience and am easily amused, maybe people who aren’t like that won’t enjoy it as much.
    i would also recommend canoeing/sailing (lasers and hobie cats, not huge boats).. i used to sail every summer and it feels like flying, it’s so much fun. and its a good way to make friends.

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