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  • #1045086
    binge
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    Seriously. This has never happened to me before. Waiting for the bus home from Clapham last night, chatting to this girl.

    Head over heads man. Beautiful. Intrested.

    Why the fuck did I not get her number? I’m literally kicking myself. You know that point where you need to step up, seize the moment?

    Well I failed.

    Twat.

    On the plus side, she got off at the stop before me, so she does live local. Maybe if it’s meant to be our paths will cross again? Although thats a pretty slim chance in London. I’m kinda understanding all those notes you read in the metro about ‘met you on the 10.40 train to wherever….’

    I may start going out more in Clapham, just in case though.

    #1176832
    JonnyQuest
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    binge;228995 wrote:
    On the plus side, she got off at the stop before me, so she does live local. Maybe if it’s meant to be our paths will cross again? Although thats a pretty slim chance in London. I’m kinda understanding all those notes you read in the metro about ‘met you on the 10.40 train to wherever….’

    I may start going out more in Clapham, just in case though.

    hang out at her busstop with some bi-noc-cu-lars

    #1176839
    lilmstrixta
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    Gutted for you hun, lke you said though if its ment to be you will see her again somewhere

    #1176841
    xFadingObsessionx
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    Aww I’m sorry for you! 🙁 … Just, whatever you do, don’t start stalking her or something. Otherwise that “Interested” bit will turn into “Restraining order”.
    Hope you see her again some other time though. I’m sure you will! XD

    #1176826
    elretardo87
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    Tell the police you met someone on the bus home that told you they were a terrorist.

    They will do the finding for you and phone you to i.d her when they do.

    #1176835
    DaftFader
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    elretardo87;229063 wrote:
    Tell the police you met someone on the bus home that told you they were a terrorist.

    They will do the finding for you and phone you to i.d her when they do.

    yeah then at least you can vist her in prison rather than never see her again :laugh_at:

    #1176842
    xFadingObsessionx
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    DaftFader;229067 wrote:
    yeah then at least you can vist her in prison rather than never see her again :laugh_at:

    better then nothing though, init.

    #1176836
    Sini
    Participant

    Aaaw that sucks Binge :group_hug
    I think you will see her again and when you do get the number!!!

    #1176827
    elretardo87
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    Actually even better….put up a poster at at the bus stop with your face on it saying

    “missing. If you saw or spoke to this guy on the bus yesterday then phone this number (get yourself a spare phone and use the number from that)”

    Shes gotta fall for that and you won’t even look that creepy.

    #1176837
    Sini
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    elretardo87;229094 wrote:
    Actually even better….put up a poster at at the bus stop with your face on it saying

    “missing. If you saw or spoke to this guy on the bus yesterday then phone this number (get yourself a spare phone and use the number from that)”

    Shes gotta fall for that and you won’t even look that creepy.

    Hahaha that’s a brilliant idea!!!

    #1176821
    binge
    Participant

    It’s definitely a idea. On the plus side- loads of beautiful girls in Clapham!

    I fucking love london!!!!

    #1176831
    Playground Politics
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    binge;229101 wrote:
    It’s definitely a idea. On the plus side- loads of beautiful girls in Clapham!

    I fucking love london!!!!

    yeah i met a girl in the pub yesterday, well two one was from madrid, and the other was locally to my bro, never got their numbers

    ditto, i went down there for some london life and im seriously thinking about getting a flat with my bro next year, i love being around so many ppl, living out in the sticks has its down sides

    #1176820
    General Lighting
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    binge;228995 wrote:
    I may start going out more in Clapham, just in case though.

    made me think of this memory from childhood..

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    #1176828
    process
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    binge;228995 wrote:
    Seriously. This has never happened to me before. Waiting for the bus home from Clapham last night, chatting to this girl.

    Head over heads man. Beautiful. Intrested.

    Why the fuck did I not get her number? I’m literally kicking myself. You know that point where you need to step up, seize the moment?

    Well I failed.

    Twat.

    i had this at glade was dancing with this beautifull girl for a while at origin, lots of smiling back and forth etc, but never plucked up the courage to go and speak to her. :unhappy: i just dont want to come across as one of those creepy guys that always going round asking for girls numbers..

    #1176838
    Sini
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    djprocess;229140 wrote:
    i had this at glade was dancing with this beautifull girl for a while at origin, lots of smiling back and forth etc, but never plucked up the courage to go and speak to her. :unhappy: i just dont want to come across as one of those creepy guys that always going round asking for girls numbers..

    You should have done! Next time something like that happens go say hello, you won’t come across as creepy, just friendly.

    #1176833
    JonnyQuest
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    binge;229101 wrote:
    It’s definitely a idea. On the plus side- loads of beautiful girls in Clapham!

    I fucking love london!!!!

    how long have you lived in london for?

    #1176822
    binge
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    djprocess;229140 wrote:
    i had this at glade was dancing with this beautifull girl for a while at origin, lots of smiling back and forth etc, but never plucked up the courage to go and speak to her. :unhappy: i just dont want to come across as one of those creepy guys that always going round asking for girls numbers..

    I’ve never been that guy, I’ve always been of the same mentality. However, after 24 very single years I’m starting to realise that sometimes you’ve just gotta bite the bullet and ask. She can only say no.

    And it’s ok. I fell in love with another girl who was speaking at a climate change debate in Putney tonight. Just so many interesting pretty girls around……………

    And Johnny- I moved to S. London in May. AND I FUCKING LOVE IT!!!!

    #1176819
    Anonymous

    Hang around her buss stop for the next 3 weeks then follow her everywhere. Sitt in her garden under in the pouring rain with just a coppy of the daily sport to keep you dry.

    Iff the old bill nick you just say ” I think she loves me “.

    I used this tactic with a girl I met called Jill Dando

    #1176830
    Tank Girl
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    djprocess;229140 wrote:
    i had this at glade was dancing with this beautifull girl for a while at origin, lots of smiling back and forth etc, but never plucked up the courage to go and speak to her. :unhappy: i just dont want to come across as one of those creepy guys that always going round asking for girls numbers..
    binge;229230 wrote:
    I’ve never been that guy, I’ve always been of the same mentality. However, after 24 very single years I’m starting to realise that sometimes you’ve just gotta bite the bullet and ask. She can only say no.

    all you need to do is say hello,
    and sometimes this is what the girl is waiting for – prehaps not having the courage to ‘make the first move’ herself,

    (trust me – I’ve been there many times and ended up ‘taking the bull by the horns’ so to speak myself :wink:)

    and if you have conserns she might think your ‘slimey’ – rationalise it –
    are you ‘slimey’? no
    so why would you come across as that?

    so on that note go forth and enjoy :bounce_fl:bounce_fl

    #1176829
    process
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    Tank Girl;229240 wrote:
    all you need to do is say hello,
    and sometimes this is what the girl is waiting for – prehaps not having the courage to ‘make the first move’ herself,

    (trust me – I’ve been there many times and ended up ‘taking the bull by the horns’ so to speak myself :wink:)

    and if you have conserns she might think your ‘slimey’ – rationalise it –
    are you ‘slimey’? no
    so why would you come across as that?

    so on that note go forth and enjoy :bounce_fl:bounce_fl

    watch out girls here i come! :weee: :bounce_flash:

    #1176823
    binge
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    Tank Girl;229240 wrote:
    so on that note go forth and enjoy :bounce_fl:bounce_fl

    Wise words indeed! Forward I go………….

    #1176834
    JonnyQuest
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    MrAHC;229235 wrote:
    Hang around her buss stop for the next 3 weeks then follow her everywhere. Sitt in her garden under in the pouring rain with just a coppy of the daily sport to keep you dry.

    Iff the old bill nick you just say ” I think she loves me “.

    I used this tactic with a girl I met called Jill Dando

    LOL

    #1176825
    globalloon
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    mate those moments don’t happen often

    a while ago when i lived in the middle east i met a really beautiful english girl called Z and we got on well, but nothing happened at that time

    about 6 months after i moved back to england i was waiting for a bus near clapham, just by the wandsworth bridge and a bus pulled in (not my bus). i thought i saw her sitting on the bus and i’d been thinking about her on and off ever since i’d last seen her, wondering what could have happened. just as the bus was pulling away she clocked me standing there and jumped up to the window, mouthing my name

    but it was too late

    erk

    #1176840
    junglist1234
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    elretardo87;229063 wrote:
    Tell the police you met someone on the bus home that told you they were a terrorist.

    They will do the finding for you and phone you to i.d her when they do.

    Hahahahaha
    one of the funniest things I’ve read on ere!!
    :laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:

    #1176824
    binge
    Participant
    globalloon;229372 wrote:
    mate those moments don’t happen often

    a while ago when i lived in the middle east i met a really beautiful english girl called Z and we got on well, but nothing happened at that time

    about 6 months after i moved back to england i was waiting for a bus near clapham, just by the wandsworth bridge and a bus pulled in (not my bus). i thought i saw her sitting on the bus and i’d been thinking about her on and off ever since i’d last seen her, wondering what could have happened. just as the bus was pulling away she clocked me standing there and jumped up to the window, mouthing my name

    but it was too late

    erk

    Gutted to hear that. Although I’m still living in hope.

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