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    Tek Offensive
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      thanks to me and a mate, some old boy got arrested and had his k taken, and missed a job interview (which he was gonna miss ne way but thats beside the point)

      i gave him a lift home, but the stupid fucker ( who i dont know that well ) fell into a k hole as he got out of my car. we where on his road but me and my mate didnt know where he lived, and couldnt get ne thing out of him. so we sat there for 45 mins waiting for him to come around. it got to about 2.30 and he started to come too, but couldnt move or talk still, so me and my mate covered him in his chef whites and a jumper to make sure he didnt freeze, put him in the recovery position, and left him there. i felt bad and kinda worried incase he was too cold.

      got a txt this morning saying he’d lost his wallet and got arrested and charged for having a few grams of k on him.

      i feel pretty selfish just leaving him there.

      #1154399
      lilmstrixta
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        I can understand why you feel guilty hun bit its really not your fault if he didnt know you that well and vice versa he could have at least told you his house number before he got fucked or just shouldnt have got as fucked as he did

        #1211606
        lilmstrixta
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          I can understand why you feel guilty hun bit its really not your fault if he didnt know you that well and vice versa he could have at least told you his house number before he got fucked or just shouldnt have got as fucked as he did

          #1154386
          Angel
          Moderator

            Glad he’s okay..

            Other than that I’m not sure what to say :hopeless:

            #1211591
            Angel
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              Glad he’s okay..

              Other than that I’m not sure what to say :hopeless:

              #1154397
              Djredrum
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                Ketamine is gonna kill techno, if its not already done……..

                #1211604
                Djredrum
                Participant

                  Ketamine is gonna kill techno, if its not already done……..

                  #1154382
                  process
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                    Tek Offensive wrote:
                    thanks to me and a mate, some old boy got arrested and had his k taken, and missed a job interview (which he was gonna miss ne way but thats beside the point)

                    i gave him a lift home, but the stupid fucker ( who i dont know that well ) fell into a k hole as he got out of my car. we where on his road but me and my mate didnt know where he lived, and couldnt get ne thing out of him. so we sat there for 45 mins waiting for him to come around. it got to about 2.30 and he started to come too, but couldnt move or talk still, so me and my mate covered him in his chef whites and a jumper to make sure he didnt freeze, put him in the recovery position, and left him there. i felt bad and kinda worried incase he was too cold.

                    got a txt this morning saying he’d lost his wallet and got arrested and charged for having a few grams of k on him.

                    i feel pretty selfish just leaving him there.

                    you just left him lying at the side of the road on his own? why didnt you just take him back to yours and let him sleep it off if he was being that much of a retard.. imo u shouldnt just have left on the pavment on his own.

                    #1211586
                    process
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                      Tek Offensive wrote:
                      thanks to me and a mate, some old boy got arrested and had his k taken, and missed a job interview (which he was gonna miss ne way but thats beside the point)

                      i gave him a lift home, but the stupid fucker ( who i dont know that well ) fell into a k hole as he got out of my car. we where on his road but me and my mate didnt know where he lived, and couldnt get ne thing out of him. so we sat there for 45 mins waiting for him to come around. it got to about 2.30 and he started to come too, but couldnt move or talk still, so me and my mate covered him in his chef whites and a jumper to make sure he didnt freeze, put him in the recovery position, and left him there. i felt bad and kinda worried incase he was too cold.

                      got a txt this morning saying he’d lost his wallet and got arrested and charged for having a few grams of k on him.

                      i feel pretty selfish just leaving him there.

                      you just left him lying at the side of the road on his own? why didnt you just take him back to yours and let him sleep it off if he was being that much of a retard.. imo u shouldnt just have left on the pavment on his own.

                      #1154387
                      Tank Girl
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                        Tek Offensive wrote:
                        thanks to me and a mate, some old boy got arrested and had his k taken, and missed a job interview (which he was gonna miss ne way but thats beside the point)

                        i gave him a lift home, but the stupid fucker ( who i dont know that well ) fell into a k hole as he got out of my car. we where on his road but me and my mate didnt know where he lived, and couldnt get ne thing out of him. so we sat there for 45 mins waiting for him to come around. it got to about 2.30 and he started to come too, but couldnt move or talk still, so me and my mate covered him in his chef whites and a jumper to make sure he didnt freeze, put him in the recovery position, and left him there. i felt bad and kinda worried incase he was too cold.

                        got a txt this morning saying he’d lost his wallet and got arrested and charged for having a few grams of k on him.

                        i feel pretty selfish just leaving him there.

                        oh well – you did what you thought was best at the time –

                        and thats all you can do ……..

                        dont worry too much as he’s an adult and it’s his responsibility not yours

                        #1211592
                        Tank Girl
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                          Tek Offensive wrote:
                          thanks to me and a mate, some old boy got arrested and had his k taken, and missed a job interview (which he was gonna miss ne way but thats beside the point)

                          i gave him a lift home, but the stupid fucker ( who i dont know that well ) fell into a k hole as he got out of my car. we where on his road but me and my mate didnt know where he lived, and couldnt get ne thing out of him. so we sat there for 45 mins waiting for him to come around. it got to about 2.30 and he started to come too, but couldnt move or talk still, so me and my mate covered him in his chef whites and a jumper to make sure he didnt freeze, put him in the recovery position, and left him there. i felt bad and kinda worried incase he was too cold.

                          got a txt this morning saying he’d lost his wallet and got arrested and charged for having a few grams of k on him.

                          i feel pretty selfish just leaving him there.

                          oh well – you did what you thought was best at the time –

                          and thats all you can do ……..

                          dont worry too much as he’s an adult and it’s his responsibility not yours

                          #1154396
                          shift
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                            Tank Girl wrote:
                            oh well – you did what you thought was best at the time –

                            and thats all you can do ……..

                            dont worry too much as he’s an adult and it’s his responsibility not yours

                            yeah but is was still a bit of a dog act. meh ya live an ya learn i gees

                            #1211603
                            shift
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                              Tank Girl wrote:
                              oh well – you did what you thought was best at the time –

                              and thats all you can do ……..

                              dont worry too much as he’s an adult and it’s his responsibility not yours

                              yeah but is was still a bit of a dog act. meh ya live an ya learn i gees

                              #1154395
                              JonnyQuest
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                                fuck him if you dont know him that well he shouldnt have been an arsehole and landed you with a whole bunch os responsibility you didnt ask for

                                #1211601
                                JonnyQuest
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                                  fuck him if you dont know him that well he shouldnt have been an arsehole and landed you with a whole bunch os responsibility you didnt ask for

                                  #1154389
                                  GiantMidget
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                                    Exactly mate if you don’t know him that well then i wouldn’t worry too much. you waited for 45 minutes which is pretty nice neway so it’s the geezers fault, at least you tried to help him eh! :love:

                                    #1211594
                                    GiantMidget
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                                      Exactly mate if you don’t know him that well then i wouldn’t worry too much. you waited for 45 minutes which is pretty nice neway so it’s the geezers fault, at least you tried to help him eh! :love:

                                      #1154384
                                      sistersemtex
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                                        Gone are the days when mates watched each other it seems.where were this guys mates in the first place??? Probably in a K hole somewhere too.

                                        Im going to sound old here but when I was younger and out clubbing/partying every weekend my mates always watched out for me as I did for them. It is really sad that alot of people seem to have forgotten or just can’t be fucked to do this anymore.

                                        I am sorry mate but I could never leave someone on the pavement I would have taken him home to pass out or back to the party if it was inappropriate to take him home Im not trying to make you feel worse but I don’t agree with what you did. Its the middle of winter and near freezing temperatures could have meant a much worse out come, be glad that he is still alive and wasn’t atacked
                                        As I say sorry to be so negative as you obviously feel bad enough already

                                        #1211589
                                        sistersemtex
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                                          Gone are the days when mates watched each other it seems.where were this guys mates in the first place??? Probably in a K hole somewhere too.

                                          Im going to sound old here but when I was younger and out clubbing/partying every weekend my mates always watched out for me as I did for them. It is really sad that alot of people seem to have forgotten or just can’t be fucked to do this anymore.

                                          I am sorry mate but I could never leave someone on the pavement I would have taken him home to pass out or back to the party if it was inappropriate to take him home Im not trying to make you feel worse but I don’t agree with what you did. Its the middle of winter and near freezing temperatures could have meant a much worse out come, be glad that he is still alive and wasn’t atacked
                                          As I say sorry to be so negative as you obviously feel bad enough already

                                          #1154383
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                                            #1211587
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                                              #1154377
                                              elretardo87
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                                                DJCliffy wrote:
                                                Exactly mate if you don’t know him that well then i wouldn’t worry too much. you waited for 45 minutes which is pretty nice neway so it’s the geezers fault, at least you tried to help him eh! :love:

                                                I’m not just singling you out by quoting you but…seriously.

                                                The guy fucked up, which happens to us all some time. We are supposes to look out for each other. I mean would you be happy in that sutuation? I have looked after strangers on drugs and they have looked after me, its a pretty big part of the ethos the party scene was born with.

                                                Never leave a man behind, especially fucked on drugs in the street where he could have died and did get arrested. For all you know he could be a nurse or similar and lose his right to work.

                                                Sorry to be a cunt but I believe in respect and that and even the idea of ditching someone in the street gets my blood boiling.

                                                #1211581
                                                elretardo87
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                                                  DJCliffy wrote:
                                                  Exactly mate if you don’t know him that well then i wouldn’t worry too much. you waited for 45 minutes which is pretty nice neway so it’s the geezers fault, at least you tried to help him eh! :love:

                                                  I’m not just singling you out by quoting you but…seriously.

                                                  The guy fucked up, which happens to us all some time. We are supposes to look out for each other. I mean would you be happy in that sutuation? I have looked after strangers on drugs and they have looked after me, its a pretty big part of the ethos the party scene was born with.

                                                  Never leave a man behind, especially fucked on drugs in the street where he could have died and did get arrested. For all you know he could be a nurse or similar and lose his right to work.

                                                  Sorry to be a cunt but I believe in respect and that and even the idea of ditching someone in the street gets my blood boiling.

                                                  #1154374
                                                  General Lighting
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                                                    it just shows the difference in culture between our two countries (or North and South) or maybe how atttitudes have changed..

                                                    I can see why this happened as people probably panicked a bit and were getting tired/irritable and unfortunately down here everyone is taught to “look out for number one”, although bringing him back to a safe house would definitely be a better idea. Yes it was his fault for taking too much K, but even if you weren’t feeling particularly charitable, dumping comatose bodies in public places is bait.

                                                    how did the cops find him anyway? routine patrols aren’t that common even if you live in a fairly rough area. Did a neighbour see you dumping him and call 999 (perhaps taking down the car reg number?) Many people these days are uber-paranoid of “gangs” and would assume you had done the man over and were dumping him in the street as some sort of punishment!

                                                    Also, if he wasn’t a close friend, and he got in trouble with the feds, whats stopping him grassing on you lot in order to “bargain down” any charges he may be facing? (or being encouraged by TVP to do so and they are devious bastards in that respect!)

                                                    Unfortunately though a lot of friendships are less solid these days., TBH I think in many cases friendship has been replaced by “networking” in the commercial/business sense where people hang around with each other only because of what they can offer or have..

                                                    #1211577
                                                    General Lighting
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                                                      it just shows the difference in culture between our two countries (or North and South) or maybe how atttitudes have changed..

                                                      I can see why this happened as people probably panicked a bit and were getting tired/irritable and unfortunately down here everyone is taught to “look out for number one”, although bringing him back to a safe house would definitely be a better idea. Yes it was his fault for taking too much K, but even if you weren’t feeling particularly charitable, dumping comatose bodies in public places is bait.

                                                      how did the cops find him anyway? routine patrols aren’t that common even if you live in a fairly rough area. Did a neighbour see you dumping him and call 999 (perhaps taking down the car reg number?) Many people these days are uber-paranoid of “gangs” and would assume you had done the man over and were dumping him in the street as some sort of punishment!

                                                      Also, if he wasn’t a close friend, and he got in trouble with the feds, whats stopping him grassing on you lot in order to “bargain down” any charges he may be facing? (or being encouraged by TVP to do so and they are devious bastards in that respect!)

                                                      Unfortunately though a lot of friendships are less solid these days., TBH I think in many cases friendship has been replaced by “networking” in the commercial/business sense where people hang around with each other only because of what they can offer or have..

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