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    Angel
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      rajsuspect wrote:
      i am a bit perplexed as to how you can call being honest aggressive behaviour

      I think people sometimes see honesty (damn its hard to explain in english)as a form of me being selvfish,one minded,think i’m better than them,saying the thing they wish they had the gutt to say..Think people see that as agressive behavior..

      #1078773
      Raj
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        ange1 wrote:
        I think people sometimes see honesty (damn its hard to explain in english)as a form of me being selvfish,one minded,think i’m better than them,saying the thing they wish they had the gutt to say..Think people see that as agressive behavior..

        so they would rather be told something they want to hear so as not to have their assumptions about who they think they are challenged? [lets all pretend we like each other but bitch behind everyones back about everyone else?]

        couldnt be doing with that; mind you dont go out of my way to be honest with random strangers; just the people who ask my opinion :crazy_fre

        #1078785
        Angel
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          rajsuspect wrote:
          so they would rather be told something they want to hear so as not to have their assumptions about who they think they are challenged? [lets all pretend we like each other but bitch behind everyones back about everyone else?]

          couldnt be doing with that; mind you dont go out of my way to be honest with random strangers; just the people who ask my opinion :crazy_fre

          :crazy_fre Damn im glad im not in the same room as you right now:crazy_fre

          #1078774
          Raj
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            ange1 wrote:
            :crazy_fre Damn im glad im not in the same room as you right now:crazy_fre

            :devil_wag you think i would have something bad to say about you? :devil_wag

            [the point is you are worrying what other people think and, if they dont know you inside you, how do they have the right to an opinion? they probably know about 5-15 % of who you really are and the rest is hidden; that is no safe basis on which to make an opinion] [we all hide behind masks and, when we dont, people project their least liked things about themselves onto us to make themselves feel more comfortable :toxic:]

            :devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag

            #1078786
            Angel
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              rajsuspect wrote:
              :devil_wag you think i would have something bad to say about you? :devil_wag

              [the point is you are worrying what other people think and, if they dont know you inside you, how do they have the right to an opinion? they probably know about 5-15 % of who you really are and the rest is hidden; that is no safe basis on which to make an opinion] [we all hide behind masks and, when we dont, people project their least liked things about themselves onto us to make themselves feel more comfortable :toxic:]

              :devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag:devil_wag

              :devil_wag No i dont think you have anything bad to say.or at least i dont hope so.You propably would have send me an angry PM if you did:devil_wag

              #1078762
              atm23
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                Dr Bunsen wrote:
                I’ve also lost a few friends through having been too honest, it’s not always worth it. Interestingly I was told by a mate with whom I had a similar discussion it can be seen as agressive behaviour to some…

                I would have to agree since I know some have interpreted me in that way…but they can just **** off 😉

                I’d still maintain honesty is the best policy, however soemtimes its just not worth the hassle……either let it go or let it out

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