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    know_hope
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    my mum is going to hospital for an operation tomorrow… im quite anxious… i guess a public forum might not be the best place, but in a way it is… i post on here all the time… some of u know me… some of u maybe even consider me a friend… time to soak up some positive energy… ok, im hunting for sympathy but any kind words would be gratefully received… :/ … thanks friends x

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    MC G-Tek
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    Hope all goes well for her mate, operations & surgery are always stressful for the person involved AND for those around them. All the best dude.

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    sinner69
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    Yes, all the best and hugs from Copenhagen!

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    Tank Girl
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    All the best,
    just remind yourself this is an unusual experience for you, your mum and your family,

    but the staff do this everyday and are experienced and qualified, so take comfort in this,

    I hope she has a speedy recovery.

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    know_hope
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    meh… i was quite drunk and emotional when i wrote this :shy: :shy: i can be such a mess wen im drunk :/ … maybe i could consider a new possibility ? who knows…… do appreciate the kind messages though, thanks x.

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    DaftFader
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    Hope all goes well dude x

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    General Lighting
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    @Tank Girl 492166 wrote:

    All the best,
    just remind yourself this is an unusual experience for you, your mum and your family,

    but the staff do this everyday and are experienced and qualified, so take comfort in this,

    I hope she has a speedy recovery.

    TBH not being an actual healthcare professional but working in the industry I can only echo this..

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    Pat McDonald
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    Yeah, well, it’s not an easy moment because the mind fills with “what if” messages.

    Look on it this way – if yer Mum’s tough enough to bring you into the world and help get you this far, the operation should not be too bad. 😛

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    tk28
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    @know_hope 492135 wrote:

    my mum is going to hospital for an operation tomorrow… im quite anxious… i guess a public forum might not be the best place, but in a way it is… i post on here all the time… some of u know me… some of u maybe even consider me a friend… time to soak up some positive energy… ok, im hunting for sympathy but any kind words would be gratefully received… :/ … thanks friends x

    Hope all goes fine… just stay positive and put on a brave face for her… that will put her more at ease which is only a good thing. Talk about something happy just before she goes off to be put under anaesthetic… tell her to think about it over and over as that will generally what she will dream about during the Op. Go for a walk and get some fresh air during the actual op… avoid sitting in the waiting room as it’s a tough place.

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    Chrispydelic
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    Statistically having an operation is safer than getting into a car.

    I’m sure all will go well and she will be fine.

    The power of positive thinking!

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    dubstep_joe
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    How did it go know_hope? :group_hug

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    know_hope
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    sorry, i was too embarrassed to come and say :/ … it all went as well as it could and she is now recovering and doing ok… it was all quite emotional in these couple of days… she has to have another one but its not for a couple of months and then it’l be the same thing again… maybe i’ll not drink lots and just chill next time :/ … thanks for asking x

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    DaftFader
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    @know_hope 494637 wrote:

    sorry, i was too embarrassed to come and say :/ … it all went as well as it could and she is now recovering and doing ok… it was all quite emotional in these couple of days… she has to have another one but its not for a couple of months and then it’l be the same thing again… maybe i’ll not drink lots and just chill next time :/ … thanks for asking x

    There’s nothing to be embarrassed about mate, it’s a scary thing when the people who raised you have health issues. After what you’ve gone through I would find it worrying if you weren’t concerned! I’m really glad she’s ok, and the only thing I can offer as advise is to not fear for the future, but embrace it. She’s having operations to help her get well, not the other way round. It’s a shame she’s had to have them in the first place, but it’s good that she is.

    :love:

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    Pat McDonald
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    @daftfader 494794 wrote:

    There’s nothing to be embarrassed about mate.

    Agree 100%. Life’s too short for fear, shame, negativity or embarassment.

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