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    Anonymous

      I don’t have a single friend anymore.

      #1273892
      Izbeckistan
      Participant

        Is that good or bad?

        #1273895
        The Psyentist
        Participant

          :group_hug@photographthesun 548295 wrote:

          I don’t have a single friend anymore.

          #1273888
          Purp
          Participant

            You can always make new ones 🙂

            #1273893
            Izbeckistan
            Participant

              oh oh oh

              I thought you meant you don’t have any friends, that are single.
              Which is why my post seems really rude :p

              :love:

              #1273881
              Anonymous

                No I just don’t have any mates I had to get rid of them as they were too into raves and lost the ones before that due to being mentally ill and on drugs. I consider some people on here mates but I dont think its reciprocal.

                No biggie I have a wife and she certainly counts as my best friend.

                #1273902
                Deez
                Participant

                  I feel you dude. I got one best friend who is like a brother to me and thats it, when I stopped taking drugs as heavily as I was and sorting people out I lost a lot of my so called ‘friends’. When I left school I lost a lot of so called ‘friends’.

                  It sucks being lonely all the time but there are always plenty of opportunities to make new friends.

                  #1273885
                  General Lighting
                  Moderator

                    it is not that uncommon for those who are married or simply a bit older to have a much smaller circle of real life friends (or supposedly none at all) but more through online social networks, and even with younger people your circle of friends changes as you might change lifestyle or attend University in a different place or move to a different area. if I still lived where I used to I would have met up at some point with Deezl and photographthesun as I could easily travel to the areas they live in but I live 150 miles East.

                    but especially with todays communications methods your friends can be all around the world and it can mean you meet a far wider selection of folk who become friends than you would simply indulging in taking drugs together and partying.

                    #1273894
                    Izbeckistan
                    Participant

                      I spend every day at various parks with lyla which although relaxing I cant read books at all.
                      Every evening I’m at home, alone painting pictures and talking to people on here.

                      We should all make efforts to meet people in our situations , it’s just easier said than done.

                      #1273899
                      MR207
                      Participant

                        I know how you feel.. I lost my best friend and I’m currently drifting apart from some others because they’re stupid and don’t follow my advice. I only have a couple REAL friends and it’s so sad when you run into old ones and you feel like complete strangers. I wish I could find somebody more like me though because the friends that I do have are pretty boring and not adventurous in the least bit.

                        I think it’s important to just look at it like your past, and often times it’s not the people that really matter but the memories that were made.

                        #1273900
                        korno
                        Participant

                          I agree with purp, but i find it hard to understand how people don’t find it easy to make new friends..

                          #1273903
                          Deez
                          Participant

                            @korno 548493 wrote:

                            I agree with purp, but i find it hard to understand how people don’t find it easy to make new friends..

                            For me at least, social anxiety. Once i’m over the initial interaction it is fine and I can have people laughing and loving me etc. but it is just getting the confidence to do that. I used to be able to do it easy and hopefully will be able to again soon.

                            #1273887
                            BlakeBaltimore
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                              I only have a couple. Good thing I’m married as well :sign0100:

                              #1273889
                              know_hope
                              Participant

                                awww :/ … i missed this thread before

                                what about joining a club of something you enjoy?… or find some new interest?

                                im a club (sport) person and find its a nice way to have more social interaction and friends… it can be a really nice no pressure way of meeting people. nothing is expected of you except participation in whatever you’re doing…

                                im sure this is all pretty obvious to you already, but it can be fun!

                                anyhow, you don’t know me yet but you can count me as a friend if you like. feel free to pm me anytime 🙂

                                #1273886
                                p0ly
                                Participant

                                  #1273896
                                  The Psyentist
                                  Participant

                                    Pretty much everyone I know is a two-faced tosser.

                                    Would rather be a lone wolf than part of a superficial herd of sheep

                                    #1273901
                                    pyross.
                                    Participant

                                      That’s pretty much the reason I find the majority of people at uni so incredibly irritating.

                                      #1273882
                                      Anonymous

                                        @p0lski 548811 wrote:

                                        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfmMylMp74A

                                        oh piss off.

                                        #1273897
                                        The Psyentist
                                        Participant

                                          @photographthesun 548889 wrote:

                                          oh piss off.

                                          Hope you’re feeling alright mate. I know another virtual friend isn’t what you want but PM me if you wanna chat

                                          #1273883
                                          Anonymous

                                            @The Psyentist 548891 wrote:

                                            Hope you’re feeling alright mate. I know another virtual friend isn’t what you want but PM me if you wanna chat

                                            Hes not a lot better in real life. Then again neither am I.

                                            #1273898
                                            The Psyentist
                                            Participant

                                              @photographthesun 548892 wrote:

                                              Hes not a lot better in real life. Then again neither am I.

                                              You seem like a sound enough guy to me. You’re just feeling down because things aren’t going your way right now. If you were such an asshole I doubt you’d have a loving wife.

                                              #1273884
                                              Anonymous

                                                @The Psyentist 548896 wrote:

                                                You seem like a sound enough guy to me. You’re just feeling down because things aren’t going your way right now. If you were such an asshole I doubt you’d have a loving wife.

                                                Think I am losing the plot a bit today dont know whats wrong with me. If I wasn’t married I would be swinging from a rope.

                                                #1273890
                                                know_hope
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                                                  #1273891
                                                  Pat McDonald
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                                                    I find that watching the “Vultures” from “The Jungle Book” generally makes me appreciate friends not for what they look like or behaviour but how well they respond to positivity. 🙂

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