Harsh mate, but have to admit Im NOT a morning person with of without drugs, all my friends know this and they know regardless of good intentions if they want my help early they need to wake me up, provide breakfast and I will still be late.

I wonder how early you wanted them to show up ? And couldnt you have met them half way and completed you move fast with them starting a bit later, then doing it without them earlier.

Also would they have gotten up in the middle of the night to rescue you if stranded, just not to do something than can wait ; )

Remember you cant rely on people to do what you want, you can only rely on them to be who they are. And you have to accept friends/GFs/Family for who they are, try to change them and you lose them

Sometimes these things can actually work out OK even though the plan itself isn’t followed.

Say the van isn’t ready to go until the afternoon – then everything works out OK anyway.

Yeah, people can be very “fickle” at actually delivering promises. Me, I try to keep to my word and rarely promise… but of course there are still times when, with the best of intent, the action doesn’t happen from me seeing I will.

Actions speak louder than words – but just saying “fuck it, forget it” kind of leaves you with a lot of extra stuff to do. Friendships are often quite a bit of give and take, and it’s surprising how other people’s ideas of what they “owe” you in terms of respect vary from person to person.

The key part of leadership – organising and telling people what to do – is motivation. Giving people the drive to do what they otherwise would not do without leadership (or guidance or mindbendery or whatever you want to call it).

Honest and balanced leaders are seen as much better bosses than raging emotional people. Just a word to the wise. I can understand WHY you feel pissed off – but if you let your emotions rule your decisions, then it doesn’t help anybody else stay stable either! 🙂

People are just god damn selfish, i would go out of my way and twist my routine to help a mate do something as simple as moving house (not an emergency) but have done and always will cos its the kinda person i am. Don’t let them dishearten you though loggy, you just keep being you, its things like this that can dishearten people and therefore adds another selfish bastard to this planet

Im sorry! Im like the same way too. I would bend over backwards to help my friends and I know that sometimes they wouldn’t do the same for me, so annoying

@thelog 506447 wrote:

Why can’t the world be more like me??

Because the world IS you….:wink:

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