yeah i get like that with ppl … if i feel at all nevouse around some one i wont be my self and i’ll hold back a bit.. but then if i sence some one is a bit nervouse with me then i’ll go the other way to try and compensate .. eg. talk more or tone down what i would normaly say so as not to make them feel uneasy .. unless i knew they would take it lightly at all times i would be trying to be my self does the term “being your self” alow for change or do you have to stay at a constant to acheave this :crazy: