@Lshak 540101 wrote:

And you are blessed that even at a later age you even got it

you cheeky fucker, I aint that old!!! :laugh_at:

I’ve always been confident in the way I look, (damn fine)

its just the confidence in decision making etc, that has come with growing up and the knowledge that I do not have to surround myself with harmful people – as I had a lot of toxic addict friends

and I know you are trying to be kind but my sister is a dick, and a very ignorant one at that, and a totally self centered one at that, so no she’s not looking out for me, just judging as I haven’t settled down and become a stay at home mum and had a litter – I dont do negative vs positive – i do negative vs realistic and this is a realistic assessment of the situation