I agree with what your saying, but I’m not sure what you are trying to erm show because of all this?
Do I judge? Yep… At the first site? Yep… Do I tell others to not judge? Yep…

About your point ‘holding back a dislike about them’… I find that your(well mine) brain hides it or makes it of little significance, but as soon they screw you over (for example) and you decide they not your ‘friend’ anymore you can clearly evaluate their erm values/actions(whatever). So +1 on that.

Oh and whats with the video? I don’t quite get it?