am i right or am i wrong

[kab]

right ok first post but here it goes,
my man thinks that when he says "do your stuff" i will be horny and ready 4 it every nite i have to do the fore play and be on top. wouldnt mind but when i say im not horny all he says is suck me then. been together 4 yrs and think he has been down on me all of 10 times if that, barely kisses me or touches me before or during sex. just feel like there is not another fore play i give head but get nothing back.
thing is when we do have the fore play its the best sex we ever have. but it hardly ever happens.
am i wrong for turning down the quickly sometimes or not,
have told him we i need a bit of kissing/touching to get turned on but doesnt make a different

[DaftFader]

i'll give you head for a fiver

[kab]

dont really hlp but very funny:wink:

[DaftFader]

dont really hlp but very funny:wink:
I wasn't joking :wink:


he is obviously a gurilla dressed as a human ... if he not willing to meet you half way .. you need to work out how important it is to you that he does this ... if you decide that no matter what you wanna stay with him .. that's your choise .. you can't make him do something he doesn't wanna do .. but there should be give and take in every relationship ... and if it's all take take take .. the person doing the giving would get stressed like you have ... mby try bribe him with sexual favors of your own :wink:

[kab]

i love him but god im dieing for a gd sex life wonder if its just me coz every bloke iv been wid the sex life dies after a couple of months lol. maybe iv just been with selfish men who are just taker not givens.
iv have done all the dressing up, porn, ect. dont know what else to try.

[DaftFader]

abstenance (sp) will be hard for you ... but if you don't please him ... and he wan't sex .. he will have to work for it ... don't be a soft touch .. if he is blatently taking the piss and being lasy .. play him at his own game :wink:

[p0ly]

he doesn't deserve your spoiling!! you should punish him for it

[DaftFader]

bite it off :wink:

[Sini]

bite it off :wink:

^^ This, or just nip him and demand he stops being a lazy cunt.

[DaftFader]

^^ This, or just nip him and demand he stops being a lazy cunt.
refuse to preform flaching apon him till he caves in and surrenders to your will :weee:

[Horny Angel]

right ok first post but here it goes,
my man thinks that when he says "do your stuff" i will be horny and ready 4 it every nite i have to do the fore play and be on top. wouldnt mind but when i say im not horny all he says is suck me then. been together 4 yrs and think he has been down on me all of 10 times if that, barely kisses me or touches me before or during sex. just feel like there is not another fore play i give head but get nothing back.
thing is when we do have the fore play its the best sex we ever have. but it hardly ever happens.
am i wrong for turning down the quickly sometimes or not,
have told him we i need a bit of kissing/touching to get turned on but doesnt make a different

I have exactly the same problem with mine which is why we're right on the verge of splitting up, I refuse to waste any more of my life with someone who is more like a neanderthal when it comes to sex and thinks women can just get off on a 'come here lets shag' request.

[benbear]

refuse to preform flaching apon him till he caves in and surrenders to your will :weee:


Hit the nail right on the head with that one mate

and also play him at his own game, make him crave you.

[Raj]

make him work for it - if he wants sucked then he has to be prepared to do it for you raaa

[xpillpopper]

He's not a giver? Then you gotta take it! grab that dude by his head and shove it in your vagina like its a new dance move. Lol. seriously though,