Threesomes, yes or no? - Mobile Devices Version

Socks7

30-09-2009, 02:18 AM

My fiancée and I got to talking about threesomes, and we'd talked it over for a while and she agreed it would be an awesome experience to invite another girl, making it clear another guy would not be welcome. Not that I'm complaining! We have one of our mutual friends agreeing to join us but my Fiancée seems to be having jitters, should we call it off? Any of you had any bad experiences with threesomes? :sign0085:

Thanks! ^^

Buzz

30-09-2009, 02:34 AM

Haha, lucky man. Its a good experience raaaraaaraaaraaa

Tank Girl

30-09-2009, 04:28 AM

I think it depends - if its just a fuck budy situation or casual relationship - where no real deep emotional feelings are involved it doesnt necesarily get too messy..
however be prepaired for your fiance to get jealous, insecure of the other girl or even for the two girls to start something - it can get very messy if deep emotions are involved

Buzz

30-09-2009, 05:17 AM

Deep emotions are shit raaaraaa

Angel

30-09-2009, 05:24 AM

I would say no, I'm a one person person, and my partner know that..

I just couldn't sleep with somebody I don't love :crazy:

sweetntasty

30-09-2009, 08:09 AM

I would say no, I'm a one person person, and my partner know that..

I just couldn't sleep with somebody I don't love :crazy:

Ditto

I think if I was with someone I loved deeply and saw them with someone else I would be physically sick, I know that these sort of relationships work for some but not for me I'm afraid.

One person at a time for sex and there has to be some sort of feelings there for it to take place.

PhilKmorgan

30-09-2009, 09:05 AM

Tank Girl

30-09-2009, 12:28 PM

my married friends are 'swingers', its something they do together...
unfortunatley the girl ended up falling in love with one of the other guys and it nearly wrecked their marriage - she started meeting him seperatley and broke their rules - as its meant to be only a sexual thing that they share

this is what I mean when I say if emotions are involved it can get messy,
other friends I know have had 3somes and its all been cool...

If your fiance is getting cold feet you need to talk to her, if she has changed her mind she will be able to tell you why and you will have to accept her decision - as if she feels pressured to do it to keep you its starting off in a bad place already, but she may just want some reassaurance

Socks7

30-09-2009, 01:23 PM

Thanks everyone, I'll talk it over with her, I don't want things to get messy! We love each other very much, and I suppose maybe its me who wants it the most! Thanks for your advice!

vincentx90

30-09-2009, 06:09 PM

for your comprehensive (ok, just hilarious) guide to threesomes watch Peep Show Series 3 Episode 1

if you're in the UK you can watch it here:

Peep Show - Series 3 - Episode 1 - Peep Show - Channel 4 (http://www.channel4.com/programmes/peep-show/episode-guide/series-3/episode-1)

tlegato

01-10-2009, 01:25 AM

Right, its simple for my opinion...

If i'm single then I will have threesomes galore, if for a laugh with one of my mates and some bird or seriously having it with 2 ladies. I'm happy for that

But when it involves my lady and myself and a third party - thats a big no no and personally would open up a whole portal to problems and I reckon failure!

But not all people are cut out like that... if you think its best for your relationship in the long run... do what you feel is best.

px2wee

12-10-2009, 04:16 PM

I would give it a no. extra person could mean extra problem to solve after the fun.

1984

12-10-2009, 05:35 PM

Personally the concept makes me want to vomit but I am an odd guy possibly

DaftFader

12-10-2009, 05:45 PM

if your not in a relationship with either of the people ... or it's not serious .. then gofor it .. but if it's serious then i would imagin (:wink:) it could get a bit messy ... and i don't mean in a good way :laugh_at:

PhilKmorgan

12-10-2009, 06:10 PM

Personally the concept makes me want to vomit but I am an odd guy possibly

:you_crazy:you_crazy

1984

12-10-2009, 06:34 PM

:you_crazy:you_crazy

its not my fault my sexual fantasy's aren't cliché hehe

PhilKmorgan

12-10-2009, 06:57 PM

its not my fault my sexual fantasy's aren't cliché hehe

Hav 2 pay a bit extra 4 wot u want is it :laugh_at::laugh_at:

Tank Girl

12-10-2009, 07:09 PM

Hav 2 pay a bit extra 4 wot u want is it :laugh_at::laugh_at:
well.....

some people are into being vomitted over :laugh_at::laugh_at:

(eek!!!)

1984

12-10-2009, 07:10 PM

well.....

some people are into being vomitted over :laugh_at::laugh_at:

(eek!!!)

ewww

DaftFader

12-10-2009, 07:16 PM

well.....

some people are into being vomitted over :laugh_at::laugh_at:

(eek!!!)
The amount of wrongbow you drink .. anyone who dates you needs to be :laugh_at:

PhilKmorgan

12-10-2009, 07:18 PM

well.....

some people are into being vomitted over :laugh_at::laugh_at:

(eek!!!)

Maybe 1984 isin2 watersports :laugh_at:

1984

12-10-2009, 07:19 PM

Maybe 1984 isin2 watersports :laugh_at:

if its not skat i'm not interested.

PhilKmorgan

12-10-2009, 07:20 PM

if its not skat i'm not interested.

now i'm showing my ignorance as I don't even know what this is...

1984

12-10-2009, 07:23 PM

now i'm showing my ignorance as I don't even know what this is...

Coprophilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coprophilia) only its the dyslexic version.

PhilKmorgan

12-10-2009, 07:27 PM

Coprophilia - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coprophilia) only its the dyslexic version.

'Cleveland Steamer', what the fuk, u dirty filty tnuc.

Each unto their own and it's a free country and all that........

but I think I'll go with 3somes instead.

1984

12-10-2009, 07:32 PM

'Cleveland Steamer', what the fuk, u dirty filty tnuc.

Each unto their own and it's a free country and all that........

but I think I'll go with 3somes instead.

I think its safe to say skat is one of the most disturbing fetishes known to man!

Tank Girl

12-10-2009, 07:44 PM

The amount of wrongbow you drink .. anyone who dates you needs to be :laugh_at:
your so kind to ma daft :wink::wink:

we shall see on sat eh?

I got a book called ' I was a teenage dominatrix' for me birthday and she had to puke and shit on this guy.... :yakk:

I dont know how much money I'd have to be offered to even consider this.... :hopeless: :you_crazy

DaftFader

12-10-2009, 07:49 PM

well let me know when you work it out .. then i'll see if it's worth starting up a new savings account :laugh_at:

Tank Girl

12-10-2009, 08:04 PM

well let me know when you work it out .. then i'll see if it's worth starting up a new savings account :laugh_at:
:laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:

and you call me the wrong un !!!! :crazy:

h0rnib*tcH

20-10-2009, 07:51 AM

give me two hot women any day. or two hot men.

would involve a lot of rope..

1984

20-10-2009, 11:10 PM

give me two hot women any day. or two hot men.

would involve a lot of rope..

sounds tacky

MisterDuck

22-10-2009, 04:03 AM

threesomes are the way forward, dont mind what mix

h0rnib*tcH

22-10-2009, 07:36 AM

sounds tacky

you obviously haven't tried it..

1984

22-10-2009, 09:06 PM

you obviously haven't tried it..

I said it sounded tacky ;) I am sure in reality it is the purist expression of love and physical pleasure. raaa

h0rnib*tcH

02-11-2009, 03:43 PM

I said it sounded tacky ;) I am sure in reality it is the purist expression of love and physical pleasure. raaa

lqtm. well it's just plain kinky :D

DJCliffy

02-11-2009, 03:48 PM

Kinky is good!

xpillpopper

15-11-2009, 10:15 PM

I would say no, I'm a one person person, and my partner know that..

I just couldn't sleep with somebody I don't love :crazy:

Sleeping with someone is different than having a little sex though, yes?

DaftFader

15-11-2009, 10:24 PM

double post

DaftFader

15-11-2009, 10:24 PM

Sleeping with someone is different than having a little sex though, yes?
yes sleeping envolves sleeping .. sex envolves sex ... what i think angel means .. and correct me if i am wrong ... is that she couldn't have sex with some one that she wasn't in love with .. like i could but probably wouldn't enjoy half as much if it was with someone i loved ... even drinking a coffee in a cafe i enjoy more with people i love .... but some things are just that much more personal that you can't do them and feel that intamacy with random people ... you have to build up trust and ultimatly know the other person in order to , for a start, know what they want ... that alone will make having sex with some one you love 10 times better than some one you don't....