View Full Version : Midsummer Dilema!!!
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 08:12 AM
Mate of mine is of too the Solstice this weekend.....& is in a bit of a pickle....
He has been sort of seeing this chick, well he has seen her thrice, they really get on, shes good mates with all his mates & rekons she is one of the soundest people he has met in a while.
He has also met this really cute & sound little hippy a few times who is working round all the festivals this summer, he doesnt see her often but when he does they really hit it off...
Both these chicks are gonna be out at a Solstice party this weekend & he is wondering how to play it...
I rekon he should stop being such a slag & sort his shit out but I can tell its buggin' him so I thought id see if you lot had been in any similar situations or had any ideas how he should play it???:crazy_diz
General Lighting
19-06-2009, 08:13 AM
get him to decide which one he wants, and use it as a opportunity to see if you can chat up and get with the other girl :laugh_at:
Dilema? more like lucky bastard
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 08:19 AM
Cheers GL, he has pulled the other girl a few times, I met her & Strawberry fair & she spent the whole day with him........
Very coupley they were!! Think he rekons it may be best not to let her know he's there....
Very coupley they were!! Think he rekons it may be best not to let her know he's there....
i think so to
or he could ask if they liked threesomes?
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 08:22 AM
i think so to
or he could ask if they liked threesomes?
That was my initial though.........Pagan Festival as it is:weee:
process
19-06-2009, 08:24 AM
:laugh_at:
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 08:28 AM
'mate of mine' :laugh_at:
What u on about Process:you_crazy
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 12:43 PM
Ok yeh fook it............this is actually my issue, any help would be appreciated. Pretty sure I know what the right thing to do is but any help would be appreciated however stupid..........some of you lot must have been in a similar situation???
joshd96320
19-06-2009, 12:45 PM
heh always good to come clean :)
just either go with the one you see more often, or you feel more connected to (not just easier to get laid with)
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 12:57 PM
heh always good to come clean :)
just either go with the one you see more often, or you feel more connected to (not just easier to get laid with)
Don't really see either off them very often....
I hate stupid shite like this.........
More than anything im looking for a way that I can see them both down there (no rude shite).....without pissing either off them off...
Whole story is that i met J ( we shall call her) a few weeks ago really hit it off, properly sound etc & probably good gf material but no major spark.....
Other girl we will call her P, is completely off the hook, slightly insane, really cute and lots of spark........never gonna be gf material but shed loads of fun.
I know this is quite petty but i rekon it may be best to have a plan in place so i don't end up comming across like a prick (even though I probably deserve it)!!!
ellie
19-06-2009, 01:03 PM
Ok yeh fook it............this is actually my issue
:laugh_at:
sorry, just wish you had used SWIM. i remember a discussion about SWIM on here many moons ago.
Josh - note how i know SWIM! (although probably used the urban dictionary a while back to understand!)
anyway - tricky one SweetAss - suppose it depends if you are looking for fun, or to settle down. although i'm curious as to why the fun, kooky girl isn't girlfriend material!
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 01:09 PM
:laugh_at:
sorry, just wish you had used SWIM. i remember a discussion about SWIM on here many moons ago.
Josh - note how i know SWIM! (although probably used the urban dictionary a while back to understand!)
anyway - tricky one SweetAss - suppose it depends if you are looking for fun, or to settle down. although i'm curious as to why the fun, kooky girl isn't girlfriend material!
Never used SWIM mysef before.......just had to look it up!!.......Like it!!
Not girlfriend material due to the fact she is very rarely around.....lives in a van & is constantly on the move......
Don't really know why I started goin on about that really... Im not really after anything like that!!! Cant miss the party mind, rekon im gonna go in disguise.....!!
joshd96320
19-06-2009, 01:19 PM
see you are cool ellie!
i had to look that one up the other day tbh
disguise lol
mate you aint gunna enjoy it if your avoiding people, just be friendly with both of em
remember your the only one that knows both of them
ellie
19-06-2009, 01:22 PM
Don't really know why I started goin on about that really... Im not really after anything like that!!! Cant miss the party mind, rekon im gonna go in disguise.....!!
Do these girls think you are going out with them? If not I don't see the problem.
Having said that, i'm often accused of 'not being a real girl' so my advice may not be best :laugh_at:
ellie
19-06-2009, 01:25 PM
see you are cool ellie!
:sign0011:
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 01:28 PM
Do these girls think you are going out with them? If not I don't see the problem.
Having said that, i'm often accused of 'not being a real girl' so my advice may not be best :laugh_at:
One of them may think that a relationship is on the cards,
I know what i gotta do, just not looking foreward to doing it......was hoping someone may come up with an amazing plan that would mean I could forget all about this & get on with enjoying the Solstice (sure i will still)!!!:love:
process
19-06-2009, 01:39 PM
One of them may think that a relationship is on the cards,
I know what i gotta do, just not looking foreward to doing it......was hoping someone may come up with an amazing plan that would mean I could forget all about this & get on with enjoying the Solstice (sure i will still)!!!:love:
ive got a plan. when we get there neck as much acid as you can find! you will pretty soon forget all about minor problems like this, when you are confronted by major problems like not getting arrested, losing your mind and escaping from the little pixies that will be chasing you round the stones! :wink: :laugh_at:
SweetAss
19-06-2009, 01:42 PM
ive got a plan. when we get there neck as much acid as you can find! you will pretty soon forget all about minor problems like this, when you are confronted by major problems like not getting arrested, losing your mind and escaping from the little pixies that will be chasing you round the stones! :wink: :laugh_at:
Done & Done:weee:
joshd96320
19-06-2009, 02:15 PM
i like
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