Questions. New To Sex. Please Help!

[slowslow]

Hi All,

Both me and my gf are virgins. We decided to have sex, Ii need some answers from experienced peoples... >_<

First question: Some friends offer us "spanish fly", they said it'll spice us up. Is it good? I've done some research before using it... Some said that it's dangerous and have caused some death for the user but some said it's not dangerous because spanish fly that's sold nowadays are not the original spanish fly but actually herbal extracts. So should i take it or not?

Second question: I know that i need to use condom in order to prevent pregnancy but is it possible for the condom to actually broke? And is a virgin vagina will give a higher chance for it to broke? Do i have to use something more to prevent pregnancy?

Some bad rumors from the internet really prevent us from having sex until today...

We really love each other..

Please help us...

Thanks before for all your advice... =)

[p0ly]

where did u come from

dEMVwZRJ-UQ

Cotton Eyed Joe (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEMVwZRJ-UQ)

[Angel]

You can read a lot more about it here


There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later.

You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you have sexual intercourse (often referred to as 'having sex'). You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too.

Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!Having sex for the first time (http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm)

There is no doubt about it, sexual pleasure is one of the best feelings in the world.

Most people's first experience with sexual pleasure and orgasm is through masturbation. There are many feelings and opinions about "getting off" through masturbation (sometimes referred to as solo sex). For more information read our page on Masturbation and Sexual Pleasure.

What about sexual activity with someone else? Whether it is your first kiss, touching, oral sex or "going all the way," sexual activity with a partner is a powerful experience. There are choices to be made about how far you go and what responsibility you have to protect your partner and yourself from disease or pregnancy. This section deals with these complex issues.Virginity and First-Time Sex: Information for Teens (http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/)



Have fun :wink:

[joshd96320]

that post was dave / sam making a duplicate account
believe me!

[p0ly]

i think u could be right josh

[uglyprettytrash]

where did u come from

dEMVwZRJ-UQ

Cotton Eyed Joe (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEMVwZRJ-UQ)

I wish I was a hill billy.

[joshd96320]

i think u could be right josh

yesh i am :D:D:D

[tactical]

Listen in folks.

I never asked these questions, so I never got the opinions of others.
Which is all you will get here.
Opinions.

I'll not entertain the conspiracy theory that weird Question's on PartyVibe are posted by OB. (Though I do love abbreviations) so...

If you care about each other enough to ask the advice of others then you're heading in the right direction.

Do you feel as though you have a good, open, relationship?

What I mean is do you talk to each other about everything?

I mean EVERYTHING!

Do you feel that your (potential) partner understands what you expect and why you expect it? Do they have similar questions? Have you even asked them about their feelings on the subject (and have they asked you similar question's)?

You'd be surprised how many people don't even talk about the sex they're having.

Talking about it is THE BEST THING you and your partner can
EVER DO.

I don't mean "was it good for you?" but more like "erm...Im a bit nervous...it's my er.... first time, so...er... erm... like... what do you like?"

And more importantly...
"Wow!!!! That was great.... I loved what you did when you ***********!!!!!!
How was it when I *************???????

NEVER be scared to question what the fuck is going on. Both you and your partner will undoubtedly be feeling the same feelings.

That's the joy of sex, it's a shared experience, and one which should NEVER be rushed, or biased or taken at face value.

It is fantastic.

And always will be.

If you feel that your experiance has been or will be otherwise then

STOP


and THINK


Time is relative, and if your partner pressure's you into stuff you're not sure of (and you feel uncomfortable doing it or thinking about it) tell them to hold back and respect you.

If they care about you they will stop.

If they can't do that, they don't care and they're
NOT WORTH IT.

As difficult as that may feel, you must be strong when it comes to you and your body.

You have every right to say no.

All the best

Sam

[Tank Girl]

/\ - ditto - /\

[JonnyQuest]

i hope you two are married cause if not u go to hell

[p0ly]

I wish I was a hill billy.

dont we all!!

[kyle82]

never that should occur as a problem.. all you have to do is do it whenver there's good timing and that it shouldn't not drive your being lame with the performance. first times are all gifts for us.. if you stumble... go ahead and remain a good kick.. lol

[photographthesun]

where did u come from

dEMVwZRJ-UQ

Cotton Eyed Joe (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEMVwZRJ-UQ)

Is that the offical video? cant help but think it might have been made on a budget hehe

[p0ly]

im not sure

[tvnice]

what's sex?

[Angel]

after 5 and before 7