I Can Talk to Girls at Clubs Now but I Don't Know How to Get Their Numbers!

[tylerdurden]

SO, yh basically i think i'm good for talking with women and can generally strike up a general conversation with them but dont know where to go from there to get laid, so i just say bye and leave :crazy: . what do i need to do to get head at least or somthing i'm gonna turn gay otherwise? GIRLS what do guys say to you if they want to fuck you? dont mean to be brash. lots of love

[joshd96320]

b4 u say bye & walk off jus b like... so wots ya number ill giv ya a call (u can gangsta it up if u wish)
if they want to treat your man bits, theyll give you it, if they dont, youll end up speaking to lesley on the sex advice helpline.

[benbear]

Yep, just ask straight out. " can I have your number "

Give them a call

Take them out

Take them out again

Take them in :wink:

[p0ly]

i dont like ur post to be honest.
just ask them for their number.....

[DaftFader]

i laughed .. i think it was ment with a bit of humor poly ... but like every one said dude .. don't worry about it too much and just ask them for there number ... if it dont feel natural to ask for there number .. it's probably not ment to be anyway that's why i am kinda single:laugh_at:

[joshd96320]

i laughed .. i think it was ment with a bit of humor poly ... but like every one said dude .. don't worry about it too much and just ask them for there number ... if it dont feel natural to ask for there number .. it's probably not ment to be anyway that's why i am kinda single:laugh_at:

ill be your partner :wink::weee::love::imgay:


Jokes

[DaftFader]

ill be your partner :wink::weee::love::imgay:


Jokes
:crazy_dru

[benbear]

ill be your partner :wink::weee::love::imgay:


Jokes
Can I have your number ? :weee:

[Shpongled]

Yeah, as you're about to leave just ask them if you could have their number, all casual and what not :wink: Unless they thought you were a weirdo they'll more than likely oblige! :D

[Soul glow Bro]

"can i mow your lawn?"

[DaftFader]

"can i mow your lawn?"
:laugh_at:

[Orka]

I just usually ask people for their facebook or myspace, or e-mail... it's less personal and less awkward. :)

[Orka]

And I prefer that being asked of me also... when people ask me for my number I go all shy and embarassed.. I am that anyway, but even more so lol!!!

[joshd96320]

Can I have your number ? :weee:
:laugh_at:
of course ;)

its..0800 567 123

[GrassChopper]

SO, yh basically i think i'm good for talking with women and can generally strike up a general conversation with them but dont know where to go from there to get laid, so i just say bye and leave :crazy: . what do i need to do to get head at least or somthing i'm gonna turn gay otherwise? GIRLS what do guys say to you if they want to fuck you? dont mean to be brash. lots of love

As a successful walking failure, I'm normally lacking in attention span to even achieve conversation (99% of the time I'll be too wankard to hold a decent convo anyway). I'll say what's on the tip of my toungue and then forget what I've said instantly :laugh_at:

I've even said something to someone before and then turned around and asked if I had said it or they had :oh_god:

I'm very easily-influenced, makes kinda thankfull I'm a penis-bearer really cos girls don't seem to strike convo's up with guys, or at least, hardly in comparision to the other way around. :crazy_diz

But yeah what the others have said really... If you've got so far as to losing it and walking off without numbers then just ask for them.

[Holeydel]

And I prefer that being asked of me also... when people ask me for my number I go all shy and embarassed.. I am that anyway, but even more so lol!!!

Orca, can I have your number? Or Facebook? Or Myspace? Or email?...

:shy::scared::shy::scared::shy::scared::shy::scare d::shy::scared:

[Tank Girl]

but dont know where to go from there to get laid,
Have you thought that maybe your attitude is the problem? :hopeless:

[tylerdurden]

I'm normally a really shy guy but once i have a few beers down me i'm Mr Confident and can talk to almost anyone. in my discoveries i;ve found girls like confident guys- obviously i knew this before but it became aparent when i was talking to them, but i never had the guts to say to them "can i get your number" in fear of rejection all i really wanted to say without the bullshit was "do you want to have sex" or "would you like to fuck" women like honesty right : ) . so ladies i dont mean to start an argument but ladies are just as horny as men and want it just as bad, but men have given women the social stigma that if you sleep around your a slut, whereas if men do it their a stallion . regarding the whole walking away thing, next time i go out to a club i'm gonna ask a girl if i can get their number. i'll let you all know how it goes.

[Tank Girl]

if you juat 'want to get laid' as you put it maybe you need to find someone else who also just 'wants to get laid' and in that case being open and honest about your intentions is the best thing - as then you both know where you stand from the start
however if you want an actual relationship that then leads to sex it may be better to get to know someone first in order to know if you are both compatable for a lasting sexual relationship?

women like men appreciate honesty, I dont go in for this women act in a ceratin way / men act in a certain way - what you have to remember is we are all human beings - often with the same insecuities and confidence issues...

good luck :group_hug

[joshd96320]

if you juat 'want to get laid' as you put it maybe you need to find someone else who also just 'wants to get laid' and in that case being open and honest about your intentions is the best thing - as then you both know where you stand from the start
however if you want an actual relationship that then leads to sex it may be better to get to know someone first in order to know if you are both compatable for a lasting sexual relationship?

women like men appreciate honesty, I dont go in for this women act in a ceratin way / men act in a certain way - what you have to remember is we are all human beings - often with the same insecuities and confidence issues...

good luck :group_hug
seconded... if ur looking for sex dont get into talking to em, just be like, wanna fuck?
that would solve any complications incase she thought u meant a relationship, and became attached.

[Dom_sufc]

seconded... if ur looking for sex dont get into talking to em, just be like, wanna fuck?
that would solve any complications incase she thought u meant a relationship, and became attached.

God I wish it were that easy! Well, maybe it is, but very risky theory :laugh_at:

[joshd96320]

lol yeah, the damage from a lady slap is untold :hopeless:

[DaftFader]

God I wish it were that easy! Well, maybe it is, but very risky theory :laugh_at:
it can work lol ... but only if your lucky .. you will get more slaps asking for a fuck outright than sex ..

[Holeydel]

I've been reading into this reverse psychology stuff...

Maybe if you ask a girl for a slap she'll end up giving you a fuck?

[p0ly]

I've been reading into this reverse psychology stuff...

Maybe if you ask a girl for a slap she'll end up giving you a fuck?

i like this post alot

[joshd96320]

i like this post alot
+1:laugh_at:

[GiantMidget]

I've been reading into this reverse psychology stuff...

Maybe if you ask a girl for a slap she'll end up giving you a fuck?

I once asked that and got stabbed. Think she was a bit deaf.

[joshd96320]

I once asked that and got stabbed. Think she was a bit deaf.
use your kung fu techinques to bang her out

i wonder if this kung fu makes you more flexible :weee:

[dougmelv]

SO, yh basically i think i'm good for talking with women and can generally strike up a general conversation with them but dont know where to go from there to get laid, so i just say bye and leave :crazy: . what do i need to do to get head at least or somthing i'm gonna turn gay otherwise? GIRLS what do guys say to you if they want to fuck you? dont mean to be brash. lots of love

i think where most guys go wrong is they are just too fucking desperate.
to me trying to 'pull' is desperate. it usually involves having a distorted view of women as 'creatures' or 'objects' with a guy thinking if he says the right things and has the right patter he can persuade a woman to have sex with him. but thats bullshit.
sure a girl can tell if a guy is trying it on and if she feels like it and he's decent she might let him believe his patter is good and he'll get some joy. if you ask enough one might be up for it. but that makes you the sleezy guy that goes from girl to girl in clubs and makes all the nice girls sick. is a shag really worth being that guy.
best advise i can give you is to treat all women with respect, as humans and as friends. try and forget about you dick and make a lot of female freinds, proper freinds, then you will get to know if their is a spark between you.
yes you can make good freinds in one night esp at a long party and if it seems right then go for it.
shagging random women is over rated and will add little value to your life.
infact it can be damaging psychologically and lead to a perception of women as objects and to relationship problems in the future. you could shag 100 women and get nothing but emptyness (and crabs and babies)and in doing so you could have missed out on several really decent oportunities.
make sweet love to someone you care for.
and.....10 good long term female freinds will do you better than 10 one night stands.
if you really must have lots of meaningless sex join a sex site, try gumtree or go dogging or go to 'cattle market' night clubs.
if you are going to decent clubs with decent people don't be that guy asking for everyones phone numbers, you might make a decent girl spew. keep your cock under control and have a good time. get ecy'ed and enjoy the music and the company.

[p0ly]

i think where most guys go wrong is they are just too fucking desperate.
to me trying to 'pull' is desperate. it usually involves having a distorted view of women as 'creatures' or 'objects' with a guy thinking if he says the right things and has the right patter he can persuade a woman to have sex with him. but thats bullshit.
sure a girl can tell if a guy is trying it on and if she feels like it and he's decent she might let him believe his patter is good and he'll get some joy. if you ask enough one might be up for it. but that makes you the sleezy guy that goes from girl to girl in clubs and makes all the nice girls sick. is a shag really worth being that guy.
best advise i can give you is to treat all women with respect, as humans and as friends. try and forget about you dick and make a lot of female freinds, proper freinds, then you will get to know if their is a spark between you.
yes you can make good freinds in one night esp at a long party and if it seems right then go for it.
shagging random women is over rated and will add little value to your life.
infact it can be damaging psychologically and lead to a perception of women as objects and to relationship problems in the future. you could shag 100 women and get nothing but emptyness (and crabs and babies)and in doing so you could have missed out on several really decent oportunities.
make sweet love to someone you care for.
and.....10 good long term female freinds will do you better than 10 one night stands.
if you really must have lots of meaningless sex join a sex site, try gumtree or go dogging or go to 'cattle market' night clubs.
if you are going to decent clubs with decent people don't be that guy asking for everyones phone numbers, you might make a decent girl spew. keep your cock under control and have a good time. get ecy'ed and enjoy the music and the company.

sort of what i was thinking when i read it

[Holeydel]

I once asked that and got stabbed. Think she was a bit deaf.

Remind me not to use the reverse psychology stuff on her

[Tank Girl]

i think where most guys go wrong is they are just too fucking desperate.
to me trying to 'pull' is desperate. it usually involves having a distorted view of women as 'creatures' or 'objects' with a guy thinking if he says the right things and has the right patter he can persuade a woman to have sex with him. but thats bullshit.
sure a girl can tell if a guy is trying it on and if she feels like it and he's decent she might let him believe his patter is good and he'll get some joy. if you ask enough one might be up for it. but that makes you the sleezy guy that goes from girl to girl in clubs and makes all the nice girls sick. is a shag really worth being that guy.
best advise i can give you is to treat all women with respect, as humans and as friends. try and forget about you dick and make a lot of female freinds, proper freinds, then you will get to know if their is a spark between you.
yes you can make good freinds in one night esp at a long party and if it seems right then go for it.
shagging random women is over rated and will add little value to your life.
infact it can be damaging psychologically and lead to a perception of women as objects and to relationship problems in the future. you could shag 100 women and get nothing but emptyness (and crabs and babies)and in doing so you could have missed out on several really decent oportunities.
make sweet love to someone you care for.
and.....10 good long term female freinds will do you better than 10 one night stands.
if you really must have lots of meaningless sex join a sex site, try gumtree or go dogging or go to 'cattle market' night clubs.
if you are going to decent clubs with decent people don't be that guy asking for everyones phone numbers, you might make a decent girl spew. keep your cock under control and have a good time. get ecy'ed and enjoy the music and the company.
nice post :group_hug

[autumn09]

sometimes it's not that bad to be desperate... passion cannot be mild.. if it s mild it s not passion... And that s a problem the present day.. people lack passion and genuine enthusiasm...

[autumn09]

i think where most guys go wrong is they are just too fucking desperate.
to me trying to 'pull' is desperate. it usually involves having a distorted view of women as 'creatures' or 'objects' with a guy thinking if he says the right things and has the right patter he can persuade a woman to have sex with him. but thats bullshit.
sure a girl can tell if a guy is trying it on and if she feels like it and he's decent she might let him believe his patter is good and he'll get some joy. if you ask enough one might be up for it. but that makes you the sleezy guy that goes from girl to girl in clubs and makes all the nice girls sick. is a shag really worth being that guy.
best advise i can give you is to treat all women with respect, as humans and as friends. try and forget about you dick and make a lot of female freinds, proper freinds, then you will get to know if their is a spark between you.
yes you can make good freinds in one night esp at a long party and if it seems right then go for it.
shagging random women is over rated and will add little value to your life.
infact it can be damaging psychologically and lead to a perception of women as objects and to relationship problems in the future. you could shag 100 women and get nothing but emptyness (and crabs and babies)and in doing so you could have missed out on several really decent oportunities.
make sweet love to someone you care for.
and.....10 good long term female freinds will do you better than 10 one night stands.
if you really must have lots of meaningless sex join a sex site, try gumtree or go dogging or go to 'cattle market' night clubs.
if you are going to decent clubs with decent people don't be that guy asking for everyones phone numbers, you might make a decent girl spew. keep your cock under control and have a good time. get ecy'ed and enjoy the music and the company.
sometimes it's not that bad to be desperate... passion cannot be mild.. if it s mild it s not passion... And that s a problem the present day.. people lack passion and genuine enthusiasm...

[dougmelv]

sometimes it's not that bad to be desperate... passion cannot be mild.. if it s mild it s not passion... And that s a problem the present day.. people lack passion and genuine enthusiasm...

passion is a wonderful thing if it is with pure intent and an open heart. enthusiasm to love and give love has an innocent childlike qualtity. unfortunately so many people out their cant see the delicate fragile beautiful precious gift that is this type of passion. too often their only concearn is to have sex for psychologicaly distorted reasons and in the process they miss out on so much sensual experiance.

[1984]

I have never been on the pull in my life but... I would think that making friends with lots of people, especially girls, is a good way to find a girlfriend. If you want a shag, have a wank or a cold shower perhaps?

Personally I find the concept of one night stands stomach churning but I have somewhat old fashioned values for someone my age (at times). Though people can do what they want, its only personally I find the idea horrible.

[Tank Girl]

passion is a wonderful thing if it is with pure intent and an open heart. enthusiasm to love and give love has an innocent childlike qualtity. unfortunately so many people out their cant see the delicate fragile beautiful precious gift that is this type of passion.
:love:

[Buzz]

Im lucky enough that girls actually come up to me and i speak to them, i dont really go on the pull :s always seems a bit sleazy to me and you just look like a twat, a few girls iv met in clubs have actually ended up being good friends instead of sleeping with them :/

fuck why do i have to be a good guy?

[Holeydel]

unfortunately so many people out their cant see the delicate fragile beautiful precious gift that is this type of passion. too often their only concearn is to have sex for psychologicaly distorted reasons and in the process they miss out on so much sensual experiance.

Disagree! If only not to make conversation...

Passion is an emotion, a sometimes overwhelming feeling. The people who can't feel the 'delicate, fragile blah blah blah' cannot feel it because it is not there. And more importantly if it't not there, why would that be a sad thing?

No way is there concern to have sex for their 'psychologically own distorted reasons' - I don't know anyone who falls into this category, thank fuck, cos people in this category I consider to be rapists, peodofiles, molesters etc...

Going out on the pull - there's nothing wrong with this! There are so many different levels of emotions regarding sex. People want passion, people want pain, people just want to be fucked, peolple want strangers, people want groups, people want long term partners.

With so many different variations of sex, who's to say what's what's the right way...

[GiantMidget]

fuck why do i have to be a good guy?

cos you don't wanna be a prick mate. Stay being a nice guy, there ain't many of us out there! :wink:

[Iacchus]

'i have to go now, it's been a pleasure talking to you, maybe I could have your number and we could meet up for a drink or some dinner?'

piece of piss. starting the conversation is the hard party

[DaftFader]

i think where most guys go wrong is they are just too fucking desperate.
to me trying to 'pull' is desperate. it usually involves having a distorted view of women as 'creatures' or 'objects' with a guy thinking if he says the right things and has the right patter he can persuade a woman to have sex with him. but thats bullshit.
sure a girl can tell if a guy is trying it on and if she feels like it and he's decent she might let him believe his patter is good and he'll get some joy. if you ask enough one might be up for it. but that makes you the sleezy guy that goes from girl to girl in clubs and makes all the nice girls sick. is a shag really worth being that guy.
best advise i can give you is to treat all women with respect, as humans and as friends. try and forget about you dick and make a lot of female freinds, proper freinds, then you will get to know if their is a spark between you.
yes you can make good freinds in one night esp at a long party and if it seems right then go for it.
shagging random women is over rated and will add little value to your life.
infact it can be damaging psychologically and lead to a perception of women as objects and to relationship problems in the future. you could shag 100 women and get nothing but emptyness (and crabs and babies)and in doing so you could have missed out on several really decent oportunities.
make sweet love to someone you care for.
and.....10 good long term female freinds will do you better than 10 one night stands.
if you really must have lots of meaningless sex join a sex site, try gumtree or go dogging or go to 'cattle market' night clubs.
if you are going to decent clubs with decent people don't be that guy asking for everyones phone numbers, you might make a decent girl spew. keep your cock under control and have a good time. get ecy'ed and enjoy the music and the company.
can i have ur number doug? :weee: