Can't Cum During Sex

[marlinsforever]

Its really starting to bother me, when Im not wearing a condom I cant cum, it seems like there is not as much sensitivity as there should be on the top of my Dick. Im uncircumcised. I Masturbate about once every 2 days(cum from that) when Im not with her, no big deal. She turns me on, and she says how big my dick is, shes loving it, but im just there getting tired and nothing happening. I get hard fine, and stay hard, no problem there, its just I cant push it over the cliff to cum, I get close, like 70% and then my mind goes to other places. Iv had a one person tell me maybe I should start to pull the forskin back.

How do I pull the forskin back? And how long will it take before it goes all the way back? Its abit tight. If I do this, will my dick look the same as a circumcised dick? And can I always put the skin back over the head again. Is pulling the skin back an alternative to getting ''cut'' or circumcised?

Any advise, Thanks.

[DaftFader]

Its really starting to bother me, when Im not wearing a condom I cant cum, it seems like there is not as much sensitivity as there should be on the top of my Dick. Im uncircumcised. I Masturbate about once every 2 days(cum from that) when Im not with her, no big deal. She turns me on, and she says how big my dick is, shes loving it, but im just there getting tired and nothing happening. I get hard fine, and stay hard, no problem there, its just I cant push it over the cliff to cum, I get close, like 70% and then my mind goes to other places. Iv had a one person tell me maybe I should start to pull the forskin back.

How do I pull the forskin back? And how long will it take before it goes all the way back? Its abit tight. If I do this, will my dick look the same as a circumcised dick? And can I always put the skin back over the head again. Is pulling the skin back an alternative to getting ''cut'' or circumcised?

Any advise, Thanks.don't you wash under your foreskin? :yakk:

[spark_plug]

:yakk:what a rancid post!!!!
can we not have partyvibe as the number 1 sex forum on google search?!:laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:

[Iacchus]

Is pulling the skin back an alternative to getting ''cut'' or circumcised?


It's just what you do before you put on a condom. It's not a medical procedure or anything fancy.

Condoms Usage and Foreskin (http://www.condomman.com/articles/condom-use/condoms-usage-and-foreskin/)

[Southcaver]

my god, read the the front page Party Vibe is the Meeting Place for Party People (http://www.partyvibe.com/)

:you_crazy I don't give a f*ck about your dick or the fact that you don't know how to use it.

[DJCliffy]

its just I cant push it over the cliff to cum,


I have never met this person in my entire life. Unless you are the one who spiked my drink a couple weeks back you sick sick bastard.

[pixiegirl]

I have never met this person in my entire life. Unless you are the one who spiked my drink a couple weeks back you sick sick bastard.

:lol_big:

[Tank Girl]

I cant push it over the cliff to cum
thats the problem honey,

stop thinking about cliffy and maybe you'll be able to come :wink:,

maybe just have a look on google and you might get some useful answers, as I doubt anyone will have anything useful to say here

[Tank Girl]

well i never,

i wonder how you know whether your face moisturisor has ramdom bits of foreskin in? :weee:


After hospital circumcision, the foreskin may be used in biomedical research, consumer skin-care products, skin graft or β-interferon (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interferon)-based drugs.

In parts of Africa, the foreskin may be dipped in brandy and eaten by the patient, eaten by the circumciser, or fed to animals.According to Jewish law (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halakha), after a Brit milah (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brit_milah), the foreskin should be buried.

[p0ly]

I have never met this person in my entire life. Unless you are the one who spiked my drink a couple weeks back you sick sick bastard.

ahahahha oh man i was gonna quote that!!!!:laugh_at::laugh_at:

[Holeydel]

So, d'ya reckon we helped this poster with his problem?? Partyvibe - sexual advice of an alternative kind...

[p0ly]

So, d'ya reckon we helped this poster with his problem?? Partyvibe - sexual advice of an alternative kind...

if the people who posted this sort of crap actually read a bit of the forum before posting :laugh_at::laugh_at:

[DaftFader]

So, d'ya reckon we helped this poster with his problem?? Partyvibe - sexual advice of an alternative kind...
well some one told him to pull his foreskin back b4 he decided to cut it off ... so i guess he has been helped .. but the dudes 23 and doesn't even know his foreskin can be pulled back? ... tbh i thought this was just some one taking the piss ...

[globalloon]

people, people, people

leave the guy alone... it's actually fairly common for uncircumcised men to find it difficult to pull their foreskin back all the way when they first start having sex

it not just girls who find sex painful to begin with. the frenum can tear and that is very, very painful (i know, it's happened to me)

merlin, in the shower, you need to peel right it back (slowly) every day for a while until it stretches and you feel comfortable doing that. then you'll be able to do it before you pop your jimmy hat on

the (much more enjoyable alternative) is to make sure you and your partner are tested for STIs, using another form of contraception (like the pill) and your foreskin will get stretched having sex... it might still get swollen and sore the first few times, but then it will be ok and you can start using condoms... although even then the foreskin and condom get tangled up... condoms are good but aren't very comfortable at the best of times

anyone who is taking the piss out of this poor bloke must have been born with a saggy foreskin... not attractive

[p0ly]

people, people, people

leave the guy alone... it's actually fairly common for uncircumcised men to find it difficult to pull their foreskin back all the way when they first start having sex

it not just girls who find sex painful to begin with. the frenum can tear and that is very, very painful (i know, it's happened to me)

merlin, in the shower, you need to peel right it back (slowly) every day for a while until it stretches and you feel comfortable doing that. then you'll be able to do it before you pop your jimmy hat on

the (much more enjoyable alternative) is to make sure you and your partner are tested for STIs, using another form of contraception (like the pill) and your foreskin will get stretched having sex... it might still get swollen and sore the first few times, but then it will be ok and you can start using condoms... although even then the foreskin and condom get tangled up... condoms are good but aren't very comfortable at the best of times

anyone who is taking the piss out of this poor bloke must have been born with a saggy foreskin... not attractive

its jus funny how people use this site for these sort of questions :laugh_at:

[JonnyQuest]

dont need to make the lad embarassesd though, someone introduce him to paul skinback it probably also has somthing to do with nerves chillax

[spark_plug]

dont need to make the lad embarassesd though, someone introduce him to paul skinback it probably also has somthing to do with nerves chillax

this thread is dying for an antisemitic joke now youve posted....

[CozMik]

don't you wash under your foreskin? :yakk:

hahahahaahha

[Holeydel]

I think the poor bugger's been scared off

[p0ly]

I think the poor bugger's been scared off

maybe he heeded the advice and everything went well:laugh_at:

[pinkycook]

Its really starting to bother me, when Im not wearing a condom I cant cum, it seems like there is not as much sensitivity as there should be on the top of my Dick. Im uncircumcised. I Masturbate about once every 2 days(cum from that) when Im not with her, no big deal. She turns me on, and she says how big my dick is, shes loving it, but im just there getting tired and nothing happening. I get hard fine, and stay hard, no problem there, its just I cant push it over the cliff to cum, I get close, like 70% and then my mind goes to other places. Iv had a one person tell me maybe I should start to pull the forskin back.

How do I pull the forskin back? And how long will it take before it goes all the way back? Its abit tight. If I do this, will my dick look the same as a circumcised dick? And can I always put the skin back over the head again. Is pulling the skin back an alternative to getting ''cut'' circumcised?

Any advise, Thanks.

I think you need some doctor's help. You just need to be circumcised and make your cock open so that you will feel your partners heat better.

[DaftFader]

I think you need some doctor's help. You just need to be circumcised and make your c*ck open so that you will feel your partners heat better.
ahahahaa i sust spat out my breakfast and had to read that again :crazy::laugh_at:

[Holeydel]

And another thing, why isn't it ever a girl who posts her graphically detailed masturbating experiences on here? Now that I wouldn't mind reading!

[p0ly]

And another thing, why isn't it ever a girl who posts her graphically detailed masturbating experiences on here? Now that I wouldn't mind reading!

hahahahahaaha

[DaftFader]

And another thing, why isn't it ever a girl who posts her graphically detailed masturbating experiences on here? Now that I wouldn't mind reading!
have you read this thread?

http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/love-sex-relationships/34101-entire-hand.html

:laugh_at:

[Holeydel]

Fucking hell - and a Yorkshire lass an all! Surely with a sn*tch like that she can't be hard to find...

[DaftFader]

Fucking hell - and a Yorkshire lass an all! Surely with a snatch like that she can't be hard to find...
just look for this sign post ....
http://www.landtransport.govt.nz/roads/tcd/gfx/pw05-05.gif

[GrassChopper]

I think you need some doctor's help. You just need to be circumcised and make your c*ck open so that you will feel your partners heat better.


Omg, didn't think anything could level the 1st post :laugh_at:

[Holeydel]

just look for this sign post ....
http://www.landtransport.govt.nz/roads/tcd/gfx/pw05-05.gif

ha ha

[Murphy]

Firstly don't worry about it. That will only make it worse.

Secondly it's normal. It's happened to me, it happens to lots of guys.

Thirdly don't try and "techniques" to make yourself cum. Don't try and have sex with her in certain positions or pull the head of your foreskin back or anything like that.

The problem is more psychological than anything. It's also to do with the fact that you're used to wanking which is a different sensation to having sex. Clear your head whilst your having sex. Focus on the feeling of your cock going into her and how good it feels.

Don't keep pumping away if your feeling frustrated that you can't cum. Either switch to her on top so that you arms can have a rest or give up the sex and get her to give you a blowjob or have a cuddle.

The problem is that you see the goal of sex to be cumming. If you lie back and enjoy the process of having sex then cumming will come naturally.

[DaftFader]

Firstly don't worry about it. That will only make it worse.

Secondly it's normal. It's happened to me, it happens to lots of guys.

Thirdly don't try and "techniques" to make yourself cum. Don't try and have sex with her in certain positions or pull the head of your foreskin back or anything like that.

The problem is more psychological than anything. It's also to do with the fact that you're used to wanking which is a different sensation to having sex. Clear your head whilst your having sex. Focus on the feeling of your cock going into her and how good it feels.

Don't keep pumping away if your feeling frustrated that you can't cum. Either switch to her on top so that you arms can have a rest or give up the sex and get her to give you a blowjob or have a cuddle.

The problem is that you see the goal of sex to be cumming. If you lie back and enjoy the process of having sex then cumming will come naturally.
most of what you are saing is true .. but i wouldn't rule out the otehr stuff .. as it could be that ... by all means do what murphy is saing .. some times this can cause problems in the downstairs department .. but then again so can all the otehr things .. i think to help you more you should post some more info mby?

[Holeydel]

.. i think to help you more you should post some more info mby?

Maybe he's too busy trying out all these techniques we've recommended to log on??

[DaftFader]

Maybe he's too busy trying out all these techniques we've recommended to log on??
either that or he has been persisting in trying to cum and has been shagging for a few weeks solid with no luck :laugh_at:

[tartipants]

people, people, people

leave the guy alone... it's actually fairly common for uncircumcised men to find it difficult to pull their foreskin back all the way when they first start having sex

it not just girls who find sex painful to begin with. the frenum can tear and that is very, very painful (i know, it's happened to me)

merlin, in the shower, you need to peel right it back (slowly) every day for a while until it stretches and you feel comfortable doing that. then you'll be able to do it before you pop your jimmy hat on

the (much more enjoyable alternative) is to make sure you and your partner are tested for STIs, using another form of contraception (like the pill) and your foreskin will get stretched having sex... it might still get swollen and sore the first few times, but then it will be ok and you can start using condoms... although even then the foreskin and condom get tangled up... condoms are good but aren't very comfortable at the best of times

anyone who is taking the piss out of this poor bloke must have been born with a saggy foreskin... not attractive


It is unbelievably common isn't it. My boy(only 8 bless him) has to sit in the bath and stretch his as his is incredibly tight. The doctor showed him what to do. It is either that or he has the snip! :yakk: