Did She Cheat On Me?

[buff52]

Hiya

I'm new here, but there's something on my mind about my girl. I've been with her for about a year. After about 6 months, she went to Zante with a girlfriend. She said she would be good and I accepted this. When she got back, she said she hadn't cheated. When they were there, they made friends with a mixed group of guys and girls who had an 'extra' room, specially for sex. She told me her friend had shagged in there a few times, but that she herself had not cheated on me. She did say that she could have had sex every day if she wanted.

I know she got drunk a lot, and her friend was up for regular shagging, so I'm kinda worried she would have done the same. Before I met her, she was a real party girl into clubbing, the occasional 'e' etc, but she is good to me when we are together.

As she tells me she didn't shag anyone, I want to believe her, but there is a nagging doubt. Am I worrying over nothing or am I being naive?

Cheers

[DIONYSUS]

sorry, but how am i supposed to know.. id say yeah she probably did, but then maybe not... your never gonna know for sure, if theres no trust theres no point as far as im concerned...

[starlaugh]

You should be able to trust her mate... after all not much point in it if there is no trust. Maybe she did, maybe she didn't you will probably cause arguments trying to find out and I don't think you would find out even if she did...

[DontBeliveTheHype!]

yeah she did .. it was me .. sry fella :group_hug

[DIONYSUS]

:laugh_at:yeah she did .. it was me .. sry fella :group_hug

[DJCliffy]

Mate sounds like old fashioned paranoia to me. if she says she hasn't cheated then you should trust her at her word. If you're proper into this bird then accept it and move on cos the more you worry the more likely you'll drive her away. That'll be 25 pounds please.

[elretardo87]

I've never met her but I can give a completely uninformed answer if you like?

[globalloon]

she definately shagged loads of other blokes

definately

[elretardo87]

Aye theres some decent vids on redtube....ridden bareback by a gang of Turks (or so I hear)

[Playground Politics]

she definately shagged loads of other blokes

definately


i was gonna say this


and add


i did it


it was great

[DJCliffy]

If you develop crabs she has been sleeping around. If you develop lobsters, she has been sleeping with posh people.

[elretardo87]

Lobsters :crazy: You'd need a serious bush to hide them.

[globalloon]

i was gonna say this


and add


i did it


it was great

he should now get really drunk and use the evidence we have provided to confront her with

by next week she should be on the rebound and someone is bound to get lucky, hopefully in front of his trustless eyes

[elretardo87]

You work for the Samaritans Glo?

[globalloon]

You work for the Samaritans Glo?

just saying it like it is

trust or bust

[DontBeliveTheHype!]

he should now get really drunk and use the evidence we have provided to confront her with

by next week she should be on the rebound and someone is bound to get lucky, hopefully in front of his trustless eyes
:laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:

[MrAHC]

:laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:the seeman stains on her jeans say yess

[MisterDuck]

take it from me, she's fucking shit in bed, ditch her.

[buff52]

Thanks for all you replies guys!! I think that she probably did fuck someone else on holiday, but as I can't be sure, I'll let it lie!!

[pixiegirl]

If you don't trust her what exactly is the point of your relationship?

[MrAHC]

my advice is. if a group of girls go on holiday to a shit hole like zanti or kos there goin coz they dont want there fellas to see what there doing. my drinkin mates go out there to meet gangs of girls like this and most of them have fellas and they still fuck abaut.

me and an old football mate of mine was datin two fit blonde sisters who were going on holiday to tennerife with a gang of girls. we ditched them before they went!

[Reichil]

If you don't trust her what exactly is the point of your relationship?


Exactly! Trust is big in a relationship. But to me, it does sound like she cheated on you. Sorry bud. You just don't say 'oh, and I won't cheat on you' because once you are out of the picture, for a holiday, she's going to fuck some other guys. Sorry.
You deserve better in my opinion, because if you are the only one in the relationship who is monogamous, then what is the point staying with her??

[Raj]

No trust no relationship

[DIONYSUS]

No trust no relationship

+1.:sad:

[MisterDuck]

+1.:sad:

+2!

[DontBeliveTheHype!]

+2!
+3:weee:

[fishpaste]

+3:weee:+4:bounce_fl

[Tank Girl]

If you develop crabs she has been sleeping around. If you develop lobsters, she has been sleeping with posh people.
:laugh_at::laugh_at:

[Digital-A]

Mate - sitting at home boppin yaself off wondering what, how and if ... you dont get anywhere ... i wont repeat what most have said about trust, i stayed with my last girlfriend although trust wasnt really there, i had no reason to doubt her but hey ... now, if you stay with her then you need from to no in your head that your not going to keep thinkin about it, youll just drive yourself into the floor with worry, either leave her and walk away or carry on and make the relationship stronger knowing although she had oppurtunity to cheat but didnt, thats loyalty you dont get often.