My girlfriend has stopped being intimate

[Deezy]

Me and my girlfriend are going on 5 months. When we first met, we were soo into each other. At the end of our nights make out like crazy to the point of exhaustion. Then we had sex for the first time where she was at the point of going crazy if she didn't get it. Then we had sex for the second time and so on. By the 4th time she has drastically changed her sex drive with me. Not only does it seem she only gives it up when she see's fit, now we dont make out no more, when i ask for sex she is never into it and when i talk to her about it, all she can say to me is that she is not into sex that much. She is 21 years old and i am her 3rd partner. I am feeling very rejected and i have been starting fights with her for BS reasons just because im frustrated due to the lack of sex. She even gave me oral before just for the hell of it to get me off. All that excitement and intimacy has stopped. What is going on? And what do i do? Can i get a good explaination on why it has become this way?

[Playground Politics]

talking to her helps, i would try some of the same questions u are asking us, but be subtle, and dont mention the word cheating,

[Deezy]

talking to her helps, i would try some of the same questions u are asking us, but be subtle, and dont mention the word cheating,

Well exactly what do you mean? Are you suggesting that she is maybe getting sex somewhere else? I mean she tells me she loves me and i actually did try to break up with her due to my frustrations, but she didnt want that to happen and wanted to keep me. But i have spoken to her about our sex life and again all her replies are having to do with not being into sex that much. But yet in the beginning we couldnt keep our hands off eachother, and now sex and intimacy seems to have almost dissapated. yea we kiss here and there and we go out, but when i want to have sex, the only time it seems that we will ever have it, is if she wants to, which is a lot of time in between. We are going on 5 months and we had sex i say 6 times. Please i need more feedback

[Playground Politics]

how are we supposed to know what ur girlfriend is doin, u need to ask her what has happened to ur relationship, obv it is bothering u and the only way to find out is to ask

[Deezy]

i already said i spoke to her about it and all she said was she isnt into sex that much. Would you take that as, there is something wrong?

[binge]

Maybe you're just crap in bed?

[DaftFader]

Maybe you're just crap in bed?
i was thinking thbe same thing but didn't wwanna say any thing:hopeless:

[binge]

i was thinking thbe same thing but didn't wwanna say any thing:hopeless:

Sometimes it's best to get these things out in the open!

[felicityfairy]

please boys - this is a serious dillema:laugh_at:
although that would be the only option :laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at::laugh_at:

[ellie]

girlies don't get horney in the same way as boys. Often they need to get stimulated before they are in the mood. I'd recommend starting slowly. bit of flirting, bit of kissing etc. should get her going. If she isnt even up for that then theres a problem. If she is, the more you do it again the more keen she will get.

Also, tell her how you feel. Because of what i said above, she may not have even noticed your doing it less.

At least, thats what i read in a magazine once :bounce_fl

[globalloon]

apparently the female sex drive increases if the last sexual experience was good and decreases if the last one was poor

[elretardo87]

apparently the female sex drive increases if the last sexual experience was good and decreases if the last one was poor


So by her a decent vibrator then she'll always be up for it.

[djprocess]

maybe she's a lesbian

[Benzo]

why do a lot of the Americans completely miss the point of this site? if it's not g-d with his gibberish, or the other bloke who posted today about halucinogens being a direct gift from god, you get these relationship sados. Deezy, have you not got any friends or family in the real world to talk to?

[ellie]

why do a lot of the Americans completely miss the point of this site? if it's not g-d with his gibberish, or the other bloke who posted today about halucinogens being a direct gift from god, you get these relationship sados. Deezy, have you not got any friends or family in the real world to talk to?

Why be such a meany? maybe he wants advice from an anonymous source. :group_hug

[Angel]

why do a lot of the Americans completely miss the point of this site?


This is the "dating, relationship and sex" forum :weee::weee:

[binge]

the only time it seems that we will ever have it, is if she wants to

And you're surprised at this? Way of the world mate- the trick is to make them want it more. Listen to some of the comments here- put a bit of effort in rather than just complaining about it and you may see some surprising results.


Sheesh- men, eh!?

[ellie]

And you're surprised at this? Way of the world mate- the trick is to make them want it more. Listen to some of the comments here- put a bit of effort in rather than just complaining about it and you may see some surprising results.


Sheesh- men, eh!?

ha ha, you should be on loose women!

[binge]

I'm a great fan of loose women.............. although I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing (!).

[DaftFader]

I'm a great fan of loose women.............. although I'm not sure we're talking about the same thing (!).yeah i was well disapointed when i watched that show for the first time :cry: