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felicityfairy
22-08-2008, 09:02 PM
whats the difference and how can you tell?:you_crazy

DJCliffy
22-08-2008, 09:12 PM
No idea but i do know love is overrated!

felicityfairy
22-08-2008, 09:15 PM
No idea but i do know love is overrated!well thanks cliffy:sign0021:

quietRIOT
22-08-2008, 10:34 PM
You can be infactuated and madly in Love.... thats all i know ...x :cry:

Raj
22-08-2008, 11:48 PM
Infatuation is an unreasoning or foolish passion; love is not necessarily completely exclusive of infatuation but hopefully less foolish

wildchild
28-10-2008, 11:47 PM
in my opinion.......love starts as infatuation. infatuation is unreasonable, stupid, illogical, n gives u a natural high. love is a deep understanding of a person, it means comprimise n understanding and ur feelings 4 that person will neva truely die. god i'm getting too deep lol x

DJCliffy
28-10-2008, 11:50 PM
My take on the issue is this. I have an infactuation for my lamp and have a deep love for snickers.

marcusblanc
28-10-2008, 11:51 PM
whats the difference and how can you tell?:you_crazy

well, love's a lot easier to spell for a start! :wink:

SweetBride202
11-11-2008, 07:27 AM
Infatuation in shallow and Love is deep. That's how I see it, if you get my point.:wink:

Sini
11-11-2008, 01:03 PM
Infatuation in shallow and Love is deep. That's how I see it, if you get my point.:wink:

I like that, nicely put!

GrassChopper
11-11-2008, 03:24 PM
My take on the issue is this. I have an infactuation for my lamp and have a deep love for snickers.

Tbh, I thought this was the best way of putting it http://www.420genetics.com/forum/images/smilies/thumbsup.gif Spot on.

felicityfairy
12-11-2008, 11:25 PM
infactuation sounds funner that love. who wants to have a deep understanding of someone? i find it hard enough understanding myself sometimes!:laugh_at::laugh_at:

JonnyQuest
14-11-2008, 02:25 AM
infactuation sounds funner that love. who wants to have a deep understanding of someone? i find it hard enough understanding myself sometimes!:laugh_at::laugh_at:


agree with that

DJCliffy
14-11-2008, 06:22 PM
Tbh, I thought this was the best way of putting it http://www.420genetics.com/forum/images/smilies/thumbsup.gif Spot on.

Why thank you kind Sir. :wink:

Dom_sufc
14-11-2008, 08:58 PM
Infatuation in shallow and Love is deep. That's how I see it, if you get my point.:wink:


Perfect...

In my opinion, Infatuation Is more common with people who have felt love before. Fooling themselves Into thinking what they missed Is there again. Makes It very difficult to distinguish any attraction tbh.


infactuation sounds funner that love. who wants to have a deep understanding of someone? i find it hard enough understanding myself sometimes!:laugh_at::laugh_at:

But with the above considered, Id believe Infatuation is a similar feeling, but without any justification, and so Is likely to end In tears more so than then an actual love and cause even more pain.

My god I sound like a divorced 40 year old in a mid life crisis :love:

O-D
15-11-2008, 04:29 PM
I've never been in love or infatuated with anyone, however this is my understanding.

Someone who is infatuated with you is an annoying bugger; constantly phoning you, texting you, trying to meet up with you etc. and can't seem to stop saying "I love you" every half minute. Sex seems to be very important in this stage.

Someone who is in love with you is someone who you can sit down with and not have to SAY anything, you're completely at peace with them, you love the good parts about them as well as their faults. Sex isn't needed so much to show love to the other. You can go for long periods of time without being around them, you may pine a bit but you won't start crying and moaning about it.

As I said, I've never had these feelings.. but people tell me how far you think I'm off with the difference between the two.:love:

ellie
17-11-2008, 11:35 AM
I've never been in love or infatuated with anyone, however this is my understanding.

Someone who is infatuated with you is an annoying bugger; constantly phoning you, texting you, trying to meet up with you etc. and can't seem to stop saying "I love you" every half minute. Sex seems to be very important in this stage.

Someone who is in love with you is someone who you can sit down with and not have to SAY anything, you're completely at peace with them, you love the good parts about them as well as their faults. Sex isn't needed so much to show love to the other. You can go for long periods of time without being around them, you may pine a bit but you won't start crying and moaning about it.

As I said, I've never had these feelings.. but people tell me how far you think I'm off with the difference between the two.:love:

You seem to have it right there - although obviously infatuation is far more fun if it is mutual! :laugh_at:

Also, i'd have to say that sex is even more important at the love stage - otherwise i think you may find yourself drifting into friendship (at best!)

I've never had the infatuation without the love, or vice versa...is love what mutual infatuation turns into after a while?

DJCliffy
27-11-2008, 06:29 PM
hello
i am called Mirian Johnson i am a nice looking beautiful girl,
very attractive romatic both caring and lovely.Looking for a harmsome man.
I see your profile and found that you are exactly the person i want,
can be trust as friend troughout my life time.
I still have more things to tell you.
If you are interested in knowing me, then contact me direct to my e-mail
address,
thus(mirian.johnson@yahoo.com)remember that love matter alot in life
Then i can send my pictures to you.
Your love
Mirian i am waiting for your reply to my email adress.
thanks.

Don't be cheating on me now. :hopeless:

Tank Girl
27-11-2008, 07:21 PM
Don't be cheating on me now. :hopeless:
:laugh_at::laugh_at:

marcusblanc
27-11-2008, 11:07 PM
Don't be cheating on me now. :hopeless:


leave it, Cliffy!:ar15:

i saw her first...

DontBeliveTheHype!
27-11-2008, 11:12 PM
Don't be cheating on me now. :hopeless:haha did you copy and paste that off my profile? .. or is it a spamer? ... dam it .. i thought i was in there hahaha :you_crazy:

marcusblanc
27-11-2008, 11:22 PM
haha did you copy and paste that off my profile? .. or is it a spamer? ... dam it .. i thought i was in there hahaha :you_crazy:


god, has any body replied? :laugh_at:

she saw me first, right... :get_you:

DontBeliveTheHype!
27-11-2008, 11:31 PM
god, has any body replied? :laugh_at:

she saw me first, right... :get_you:
i am afraid not ... this is off your profile ...


Today 06:24 PM - permalink (http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/members/marcusblanc.html#vmessage1105)
mirian

hello
i am called Mirian Johnson i am a nice looking beautiful girl,
very attractive romatic both caring and lovely.Looking for a harmsome man.
I see your profile and found that you are exactly the person i want,
can be trust as friend troughout my life time.
I still have more things to tell you.
If you are interested in knowing me, then contact me direct to my e-mail
address,
thus(mirian.johnson@yahoo.com)remember that love matter alot in life
Then i can send my pictures to you.
Your love
Mirian i am waiting for your reply to my email adress.
thanks.

Report (http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/visitormessage.php?do=report&vmid=1105)



and this is off mine .....



Today 06:22 PM - permalink (http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/members/dontbelivethehype-.html#vmessage1104)
mirian

hello
i am called Mirian Johnson i am a nice looking beautiful girl,
very attractive romatic both caring and lovely.Looking for a harmsome man.
I see your profile and found that you are exactly the person i want,
can be trust as friend troughout my life time.
I still have more things to tell you.
If you are interested in knowing me, then contact me direct to my e-mail
address,
thus(mirian.johnson@yahoo.com)remember that love matter alot in life
Then i can send my pictures to you.
Your love
Mirian i am waiting for your reply to my email adress.
thanks.

Report (http://www.partyvibe.com/forums/visitormessage.php?do=report&vmid=1104)




I SAW HER FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!

Tank Girl
27-11-2008, 11:36 PM
:laugh_at::laugh_at:


well she certainly aint fussy !!!! :wink:

DontBeliveTheHype!
27-11-2008, 11:43 PM
:laugh_at::laugh_at:


well she certainly aint fussy !!!! :wink:
na she would of msged you if she wasn't fussy :laugh_at:

Tank Girl
27-11-2008, 11:44 PM
na she would of msged you if she wasn't fussy :laugh_at:
tee hee I just wee'd a little laughing :laugh_at:

marcusblanc
28-11-2008, 02:23 PM
I SAW HER FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!

bugger! :hopeless:

marcusblanc
28-11-2008, 02:26 PM
:laugh_at::laugh_at:


well she certainly aint fussy !!!! :wink:

she is jus a modern, liberated women, with very little patience! :laugh_at:

DontBeliveTheHype!
28-11-2008, 02:40 PM
she is jus a modern, liberated women, with very little patience! :laugh_at:
probably a minger :yakk::laugh_at:

DJCliffy
28-11-2008, 05:28 PM
leave it, Cliffy!:ar15:

i saw her first...

haha did you copy and paste that off my profile? .. or is it a spamer? ... dam it .. i thought i was in there hahaha :you_crazy:

Whoah there chaps. I saw her first and we've already declared our undying love for each other. I emailed her and she told me she loves me. In fact she asked me for my credit card details just so she can prove her love for me, i may be 25 thousand pounds in the red but this proves...................Oh bugger. :cry:

marcusblanc
28-11-2008, 05:53 PM
Whoah there chaps. I saw her first and we've already declared our undying love for each other. I emailed her and she told me she loves me. In fact she asked me for my credit card details just so she can prove her love for me, i may be 25 thousand pounds in the red but this proves...................Oh bugger. :cry:


cliffy, if i'd known u were that rich, i wudda chatted u up meself! :love:

course now the moneys gone, its all to late... :yakk:

DJCliffy
28-11-2008, 05:58 PM
cliffy, if i'd known u were that rich, i wudda chatted u up meself! :love:

course now the moneys gone, its all to late... :yakk:

Tis a cruel cruel world innit. :hopeless:

marcusblanc
29-11-2008, 05:57 PM
yup! :hopeless:

DJCliffy
29-11-2008, 06:16 PM
innit. :yakk:

marcusblanc
29-11-2008, 09:25 PM
marian is such a lovely name an all! :cry:

DJCliffy
30-11-2008, 02:38 PM
marian is such a lovely name an all! :cry:


At least it wasn't Miriam. I saw this show once where this really attractive 'woman' called Miriam and she was trying to find a man. All these fellas were well up for it cos if you looked at this 'bird' you would think she was actually really fit.

At the end she revealed she actually had a cock! It was so funny cos you everyone genuinely thought she was a lady! You should of seen these fellas faces, fucking priceless! :laugh_at:

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After the surgery I probably still would though! :laugh_at: