love at first site

[Playground Politics]

has any of you experianced love at first site

just been sitting down and a someone sits next to u, and you instantly feel like one day you are going to be with them, you know from the first sight of them that it is love, you know when they open there mouth only good things are gonna come out, and when they leave there is an imprint of them in your mind, you remember their face and have felt like you have known them for years, youd do anything for them, lie down and die, fight for them. money/time/effort/what you think just doesnt matter anymore. and this is all before youve even muttered a word, or they have even said anything

and then it all comes true.....

[DJCliffy]

Awww are you in love mate?! :wink:

[DaftFader]

has any of you experianced love at first site

just been sitting down and a someone sits next to u, and you instantly feel like one day you are going to be with them, you know from the first sight of them that it is love, you know when they open there mouth only good things are gonna come out, and when they leave there is an imprint of them in your mind, you remember their face and have felt like you have known them for years, youd do anything for them, lie down and die, fight for them. money/time/effort/what you think just doesnt matter anymore. and this is all before youve even muttered a word, or they have even said anything

and then it all comes true.....

apart from the last line yes lol

[djprocess]

apart from the last line yes lol
ha ha true.

[DJCliffy]

I was once in love. Loved her so much, we used to do everything together she listened to everything i had to say and never once argued back. i actually thought she was the one.

Was a sad day when no amount of puncture repair jobs would patch her back up, sadly she deflated and i had her recycled. Loves a fickle business people, Be careful out there!!:crazy_dru

[DaftFader]

I was once in love. Loved her so much, we used to do everything together she listened to everything i had to say and never once argued back. i actually thought she was the one.

Was a sad day when no amount of puncture repair jobs would patch her back up, sadly she deflated and i had her recycled. Loves a fickle business people, Be careful out there!!:crazy_dru
HAHA .. i thought you were being seriouse at first .. i was allmost in :cry:
:laugh_at:

[djprocess]

HAHA .. i thought you were being seriouse at first .. i was allmost in :cry:
:laugh_at:
you had me as well until the last bit!:lol_big:

[Dom_sufc]

Nope, no such thing. Only good Impressions. Anything that comes later is just a coincidence.

To me, love is something you can only feel for someone who you know enough about to know they are just like you. Afterall, you cannot tell anything about someone from just looking at them.

I suppose you could describe me as a more scientific person sometimes. I believe love is an Instinct desire you feel for someone your mind deems fit for passing on your genes through. This can be said for most girls, but I think the difference between a shag and a wife is that the wife ticks all the boxes, and the shag piece ticks enough for the bollocks brain to override the rest.

Im not being cynical, I have been in love, and although Im "over it", it still lingers there as a repressed thought, that quickly gets shoved aside at each reminiscence. But you cannot deny these great feelings are our bodies way to encourage beneficial actions for the purpose of the humankind's successful survival.

[boothy]

i gotta say no, tbh

i've seen someone who i think "yeah man, she's fuckin amazin" but in reality its wishfull thinkin

[Angel]

I'll have to say yes..

Moved in with him the day we met.

Lasted for 19 years and he's my best friend now :bounce_g:

[MrAHC]

yes but with me the fealings never mutual.

[Tank Girl]

certainly had 'lust' at first sight with Mr Tank

the love developed as I got to know him

[d.r.e.a.m]

certainly had 'lust' at first sight with Mr Tank

the love developed as I got to know him


im agreeing with you (minus the mr tank of course) you gota get to no some 1 1st!!!i thought it was posible as i thought i had a bit of love at 1st site myself lasted for 3 an half years an then went tits up big time turned out she was just a propper slag an im still hurtin from it now!!!still live n learn NO SUCH THING!!!!soz just dont get yer hopes up pp....hope it dose work out for ya tho...:wink:

[Playground Politics]

who says ive had it.................

[hippy]

I think really profoundly intense feelings about someone, not the type that make people want to get married and settle down cause they 'tick all the boxes' but the kind of feelings that make people write poetry, love songs, have someone constantly on their mind as a persistent distraction no matter what they're doing, smiling spontainiously for no apparent reason when its going well...where you don't want to be with someone because you want a relationship, a warm body to have sex with or cuddle with, a friend, a family, but because you want them and only them for who they are uniquely...

...those types of feelings I think probably don't come at first sight but they do come very quickly or never, I think. Caring about someone might increase gradually over time, and emotional investment increases, but the type of intoxicating, bubbly, thrilling, compulsive and distracting love is very early onset.

[Playground Politics]

well i said what i had to say to the person, and she said she really likes me but isnt ready for anything.

on a comedown, this is possibly the worst thing possible, i wouldve rather she had said she didnt like me, or that she isnt ready now, but would like to just "see each other",

right MDMA two weeks in a row, maybe im gonna have anothr break for 3 months like i did last time, me thinks

any advice?

[JonnyQuest]

well i said what i had to say to the person, and she said she really likes me but isnt ready for anything.

on a comedown, this is possibly the worst thing possible, i wouldve rather she had said she didnt like me, or that she isnt ready now, but would like to just "see each other",

right MDMA two weeks in a row, maybe im gonna have anothr break for 3 months like i did last time, me thinks

any advice?

give her some md first , then tell her again

[DJCliffy]

well i said what i had to say to the person, and she said she really likes me but isnt ready for anything.

on a comedown, this is possibly the worst thing possible, i wouldve rather she had said she didnt like me, or that she isnt ready now, but would like to just "see each other",

right MDMA two weeks in a row, maybe im gonna have anothr break for 3 months like i did last time, me thinks

any advice?

Be aloof and tell her you hate her. Might work......

Nah fuck that man just do NOT fall into the friend zone with this chicky. If that happens then you ain't never gonna get with her. Unless ur already mates with her then thats probably why shes being like that. I say show her that you'd be the perfect geezer for her without being too mushy, little gestures go a long way mate. Godspeed! :wink:

[lilmstrixta]

i don't believe in love at first site though i did fancy the pants off mr trix when i first saw him.

[Cinimod]

Some of the stories in this thread are really quite depressing. lol. We need some more positive stories.

I would probably say that love at first sight doesn't exist, although it is possible to have intense lust for someone, but that isn't really love.

[DJCliffy]

Some of the stories in this thread are really quite depressing. lol. We need some more positive stories.

I would probably say that love at first sight doesn't exist, although it is possible to have intense lust for someone, but that isn't really love.

I hope you didn't find my story depressing!? :wink:

[lilmstrixta]

Be aloof and tell her you hate her. Might work......

Nah fuck that man just do NOT fall into the friend zone with this chicky. If that happens then you ain't never gonna get with her. Unless ur already mates with her then thats probably why shes being like that. I say show her that you'd be the perfect geezer for her without being too mushy, little gestures go a long way mate. Godspeed! :wink:

The friend zone i like that i fell into that zone with a lad before was gutted, personally i think it was just a cop out because he didnt like me in that way :wink:

[pinkfairy]

i know iv only used the friends zone excused when i didnt like someone like that, if you really like someone you'll go for it anyway!

not sure about love at first sight- although have experienced lust at first sight many a time!:wink:

[Cinimod]

not sure about love at first sight- although have experienced lust at first sight many a time!:wink: lol. Haven't we all :wink:...

[skattyasfuk]

I kind of had this experience with my ex.

I mean I definately noticed him and once he sat down and we spoke that was it, I knew that we'd end up together. And we did!

Obiviously wasn't meant to be though!

lovely while it lasted though :love: :love:

[pinkfairy]

iv had a change of heart on this one-never believed in love at first sight but saw this bloke the other weekend at a club night and things have just gone so well since that iv been forced to re-assess my views!

we've only known each other a few weeks and im already twitterpatted!:love:

maybe love at first sight does exist..... :love:

[rachus]

well i said what i had to say to the person, and she said she really likes me but isnt ready for anything.

on a comedown, this is possibly the worst thing possible, i wouldve rather she had said she didnt like me, or that she isnt ready now, but would like to just "see each other",

right MDMA two weeks in a row, maybe im gonna have anothr break for 3 months like i did last time, me thinks

any advice?

if you love them, set them free.

at the end of the day if you love them you will let them be happy even if it doesnt mean your part of it. love is about wanting to give them everything.. or nothing.. if thats what they truly want. being completely selfless.
and total love is only worth it when they feel exactly the same back... well.. thats what i think anyway....

its shit thing to think about when ur on a comedown.. i know where ur coming from.. take it easy on the drugs if u want a soft and silky comedown :)

[redneck]

Some of the stories in this thread are really quite depressing. lol. We need some more positive stories.


I still refer to my first girlfriend as my first love because the second our eyes met we both knew it was love (or lust)

[quietRIOT]

Nope, no such thing. Only good Impressions. Anything that comes later is just a coincidence.

To me, love is something you can only feel for someone who you know enough about to know they are just like you. Afterall, you cannot tell anything about someone from just looking at them.

I suppose you could describe me as a more scientific person sometimes. I believe love is an Instinct desire you feel for someone your mind deems fit for passing on your genes through. This can be said for most girls, but I think the difference between a shag and a wife is that the wife ticks all the boxes, and the shag piece ticks enough for the bollocks brain to override the rest.

Im not being cynical, I have been in love, and although Im "over it", it still lingers there as a repressed thought, that quickly gets shoved aside at each reminiscence. But you cannot deny these great feelings are our bodies way to encourage beneficial actions for the purpose of the humankind's successful survival.
W.O.W :crazy_dru

[DJCliffy]

I've been in love before. The kind where it takes over your whole life and nothing else matters. then had my heart ripped out and shat on. that was over two years ago and it's still in the back of my mind. Like jaws I'm afraid to go swimming again for fear of the same thing happening. Fucking stupid human emotions! :crazy:

[binge]

has any of you experianced love at first site

just been sitting down and a someone sits next to u, and you instantly feel like one day you are going to be with them, you know from the first sight of them that it is love, you know when they open there mouth only good things are gonna come out, and when they leave there is an imprint of them in your mind, you remember their face and have felt like you have known them for years, youd do anything for them, lie down and die, fight for them. money/time/effort/what you think just doesnt matter anymore. and this is all before youve even muttered a word, or they have even said anything



About 3 or 4 times a week! It's never returned though......

About this girl- just be yourself, don't get too wrapped up, or end up in the friend zone. She'll soon come round......

[binge]

(and when I clicked I thought you meant WEBsite!!!)

-I Should really get out more..........

[DaftFader]

I've been in love before. The kind where it takes over your whole life and nothing else matters. then had my heart ripped out and shat on. that was over two years ago and it's still in the back of my mind. Like jaws I'm afraid to go swimming again for fear of the same thing happening. Fucking stupid human emotions! :crazy:
yeah i got a similer complex my self i was with my first sexual relation ship for about 3 years mby a little more and she was my first love and what i thought "the love of my life" at the time .. was totaly bisotted with her ... turns out she was just a fucking dirty slag and had cheeted on my with like 3-4 other dudes behind my back took me years to get over that and as i say i have some what of a minor complex with trusting people easily ever since:cry: i guess the lesson is learn't tho .. that you can't allways trust people easily as some do not deserve that trust ... strange how love can turn into hate so easily ... well i guess they do say there is only a thin line between them:wink:

[DaftFader]

About this girl- just be yourself, don't get too wrapped up, or end up in the friend zone. She'll soon come round......
treat them mean keep them keen my soon to be "DIVORCED" ex-drugdealer used to tell me...:you_crazy

[michelle444]

yeah...sort of sacrifice but worth fullfilling...

[pixiegirl]

I'll have to say yes..

Moved in with him the day we met.

Lasted for 19 years and he's my best friend now :bounce_g:

My husband moved in with me 3 days after we met. I wouldn't say that I loved him straight away (although it didn't take long) but from the first second I knew he was special and different and worth risking everything for.

[DJCliffy]

yeah...sort of sacrifice but worth fullfilling...

You remind me of a spammer who had the same signature. maybe you knew him?

[xFadingObsessionx]

I've been in love before. The kind where it takes over your whole life and nothing else matters. then had my heart ripped out and shat on. that was over two years ago and it's still in the back of my mind. Like jaws I'm afraid to go swimming again for fear of the same thing happening. Fucking stupid human emotions! :crazy:

I've been there... Broke up with her 6months ago.. Still not 100% over her.. I'm getting there though.. However, we'd still be together if she wasn't some crazy ass psycho bitch who deserves a good kick int face :D

[felicityfairy]

yes but with me the fealings never mutual.same:cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry: