Do you think ........

[lilmstrixta]

.....it's possible for a couple to have a proper , stabel relationship with no sex?

[Angel]

Would love to say yes but I don't think I could :love:

[lilmstrixta]

I agree i think its not possible minds or even hands would start to wonder. no matter how much you didnt want too

[DaftFader]

well imho that would be a friendship really ... thats if your talking no sexual physical contact ...

[lilmstrixta]

im saying no sex so kissing and cuddling a gogo but no sex of anykind

[DaftFader]

thats a hard one ... but funny you should bring this up as i was watching some program about sexual relation ships the other day ..there was this couple that were catholic and didn't belive in sex b4 marrage so both were virgins and seemed to realy love the pants off each other ..excuse the pun ... they both said things along the same lines in there interveiws ... something like "sex wasn't a nasesity to love .. only an addition to make it stronger" and both addmitted to finding it realy hard not to fuck (for want of a better word :laugh_at:) even tho they had very stron religouse belifes.... now im not a religose person by any means .. but what they said seems to make sence to me ... even if i don't follow there abstinace if i can help it :laugh_at:

[lilmstrixta]

BUt they don't know any difference they havent had sex.
i know you can love someone without having sex with them but i love some of my really close friends and surely if i was with someone and they didnt want to have sex wouldnt that be like you said before just another good friend.

[DaftFader]

oh yeah if you have had sex befour that definatly make a diferance to the way you would feel about it ... it all depends on how the relationship started off in that case .. like if you started off having sex with some one then decided to not have sex after .. that would be realy hard to keep a stable relationship going .. but if you didn't have sex to start off with and took it slow if you like .. might make it a posibility for some time .. but i don't think you could get with some one never have sex and die with them .. un less you were @ that age where you just wan't companionship and not sex .. (70's ect.) .. alltho in saying that .. if there where two people of a younger age with the same mind set i supose it's posible

[lilmstrixta]

yea i can see your point, i was thinking along the lines of where one person in the relationship does but the other person doesnt.
And they can't give you a valid reason

[DaftFader]

na fuck that ... unless the two people in the relationship want the same thing .. or are willing to come to a comprimise .. i don't think it will work very well

[lilmstrixta]

what a head fuck hey

[DaftFader]

it also depends if it's a tempory thing or perminant .. if it's perminant .. gah :yakk: .. if it's a temporay ting .. then meh :yawn:

[lilmstrixta]

yea i guess you are right there defo wouldnt wanna stay in a relationship forever with someone with no sex

[DaftFader]

yeah true say .. i have had it from the other end tho ... hmm that sounds bad .. let me explain my self :laugh_at: .... my first sexual partner that i first got with back when i was in school used to have a very high sex drive .. and at the time so did i .. but this perticuler evening me and my gf had gone out to a club and came back at about 3 am ... i had work at 8/9 so wanted to get to bed rather sharpish ... but was met with my gf begging and eventualy crying her eyes out cos i wouldn't shag her .. :cry: ... i ended up doing it any way just to get some sleep .. but the thing is a relation ship full of sex can also be unhealthy as it's expected on tap all the time ...:wink:

[lilmstrixta]

oh dont get me wrong i don't mean all the time god people arent robots lol
but you know like a couple of times a week not every 6 months lol

[elretardo87]

Fuck 6 months....I'm going insane after 2 weeks.

My lad is in a huff over the fact I don't spend enough time with her because I have work and uni. The silly girl doesn't realise I had booked us a weekend away in Barcelona to maek up for it but as shes bein a fool I don't think I can be arsed.

[DaftFader]

oh yeah i didn't mean every day .. that was more like 3 times a day .. on some days ... i meen i like sex ... but when your doing that often it's not fun just a chore ... a few times a week is sound .. it's nice to have sex regulary ... but you also need a break ... as you say we are not robots .. if we where we wouldn't need sex lol :laugh_at: ... but 6 months is a piss take ... if your in a relation ship .. and you want sex and your only getting it every 6 months ... there is some thing wrong :( ..unless you both agree on this

[Raj]

I couldnt do it - would go crazy very quickly :laugh_at:

[elretardo87]

I couldnt do it - would go crazy very quickly :laugh_at:

correction "crazier"

[boothy]

it can happen, i doubt i could do it but theres a couple in the local that allegedly manage it.