Wedding rings

[emptyone]

so the ring my misses wants me to buy her is about 2000 us dollars and i feel that when i asked her to be with me for ever that i was going to surprise her with a ring that i picked out that made me think of her so it would be from the heart and not a thing of greed or anything along that.am i wrong on these feelings?

[Dom_sufc]

Yeah you are mate. But at the end of the day you still love her, and the ring buying would have just been a nice momentem for showing the love, but you dont actually need those momentums to have a good relationship, or show love.

Im saying the act of you buying a suprise ring is the momentum, btw, not not buying a ring full stop. I think she would be pissed off without one lol.

A better example maybe.. People dream of fairy tale weddings ect, and nice lives with their partners. It doesnt happen anything like that though, but the feelings are all still the same. You just vision the feelings in these traditionally "romantic" things. It doesnt mean you have to live them like that to have a full relationship or full feeling.

[emptyone]

if this pic shows up this is what she wants and like i said i wanted to surprise her but she has her mind on this and she is the love of my life and would do anything she wants just to make her smile ima end up getting it for her but i just wanted to hear sum feed back on my feelings

[Southcaver]

pick one out that costs $3000 and tell her its the one you really want:weee:

[Angel]

To be honest..

If she loves you, the prize on the ring shouldn't matter :you_crazy

[emptyone]

i agree with you angel but i want her to have every thing she wants she stuck with me during rehab and while i was not working and during my recovery from a quad crash where i broke my leg, hip and compressed my spine (i was in a cast from mid-waist to below my knees) we have dated off and on for the last 12 years and i want her to see the appreciation i have for her so i want to get her the ring but i also wanted to pick one out for her that i see fitting the price dont matter i feel i got no choice

[Angel]

i agree with you angel but i want her to have every thing she wants she stuck with me during rehab and while i was not working and during my recovery from a quad crash where i broke my leg, hip and compressed my spine (i was in a cast from mid-waist to below my knees) we have dated off and on for the last 12 years and i want her to see the appreciation i have for her so i want to get her the ring but i also wanted to pick one out for her that i see fitting the price dont matter i feel i got no choice

I understand what you mean,I really do :group_hug


I just don't agree :hopeless:

[emptyone]

then if you was in my shoes what would you do?

[Angel]

If you were the man I loved..

My dream would be that you never forget to tell me that you love me,show me you love me with the things you do..

Can be cooking a special meal,finding a babysitter and taking me out just the 2 of us,always be there if I need you,the small things in life.

I would like to be appreciated that way instead,that's important to me..

But I'm older than you ,so my values in life are different

[emptyone]

dont think i dont do little stuff like you wrote cause i do expecailly when she has a rough day at work i have voiced my opinion to her and maybe getting her what she would like and want would be a big and open sign of appreciation? or maybe im confused because im stuck thinking inside the box of my life?

[Angel]

She's a very lucky lady :love:


And if you feel that buying her that ring really show her how much you love her, you should do it :group_hug

[Playground Politics]

if i were u i wouldnt marry her, but then again im only twenty, so it kinda makes sense

[emptyone]

now playground politics alot of my guy friends would have loved hearing that about a year ago when i broke the news to them all but if you was in the relationship i am in you would probly not care when one says that and now my bros are happy i stayed put for they see the positive changes i have made about how i was living and how i went from being a meth junkie to being where i am now so i can only hope you are able to find one that can do it for you. you are never to young it happens when you dont think its going to

[Playground Politics]

ur sweet:love:, pity u have to swear in ur profile picture

[emptyone]

thank you i try to be honest and say what ever i think of and the pic was after a 8 hour and 3 hour drive each way festival when i got in my older brother was there and took pics of me while i was at the end of a long trip

[Angel]

if i were u i wouldnt marry her

Not sure she would marry you either :weee:

[emptyone]

good thing then that i am engaged to sum one who will marry me and for that im a happy prick

[Angel]

good thing then that i am engaged to sum one who will marry me and for that im a happy prick

:group_hug your very lucky

[Raj]

We have rings but never wear them - to us the rings are not important and we keep them in a drawer for special occasions. Different strokes for different folks :wink:

They are a matching pair of rings engraved in elvish [from Tolkien] with 'One love to bind them all' and they are in silver as we think gold is tacky. It took a while to find a pair of rings we liked :crazy_fre

[lilmstrixta]

hmmmm i dont see why she would want a ring worth so much, if she loves you it shouldnt matter like angel said.

[emptyone]

hmmmm i dont see why she would want a ring worth so much, if she loves you it shouldnt matter like angel said.

the funny thing is she saw it and after a few trips to the store and after she told me she really wanted that one she tried it on and saw the price so its not like she went and picked the highest priced one it just happened that way ya know

[lilmstrixta]

yea but if it was me n my fella i would be like you are not buying me that.
i just could think of a million other things you could buy with that cash

[Playground Politics]

yea but if it was me n my fella i would be like you are not buying me that.
i just could think of a million other things you could buy with that cash

i agree

[emptyone]

im a very free spirited and have a floaty soul then add in luck when it comes to having money that the price is not what has been bothering me its that i wanted to pick out it by myself so i could look and look till i found one that i found to be the ring for her and one that i spent alot of time finding so it would have a little more meaning than just the legal rights to be able to say with love and pride this is my wife

[lilmstrixta]

yea i well i would rather matt pick out mine than me tell him which i want i do agree does seem more specail

[emptyone]

been thinking and after getting off the phone with my brother i think ima go with what i wanted to do and try to explain again (but ill go more into details this time) to her as to why i went with what i feel i should i know it shouldnt bug her so why not right

[lilmstrixta]

indeed at least your being thoughtfull thats what counts if you ask me