If you had to...

[rach]

... give up sex or free parties, what would you choose?


... and we're talking celibacy here....

[feedyourheadspace]

Strange coincidence you should ask, as it's something I've been thinking about. Not quite celibacy, but if someone you were in a relationship with gave you an ultimatum-Parties, drugs etc or staying together... I choose partying everytime

[lingey]

u are gay

[BioTech]

u are gay

Care to elaborate?

[boothy]

u are gay

an interesting insight there :you_crazywhat d'ya mean?

[rach]

Strange coincidence you should ask, as it's something I've been thinking about. Not quite celibacy, but if someone you were in a relationship with gave you an ultimatum-Parties, drugs etc or staying together... I choose partying everytime

Although they say opposties attract, I think it's really important to have common interests with the person your with, anyone who gave me that type of ultimatum... or any kind of ultimatum in fact... wouldn't be the type of person I would want to be with

I agree with you, parties all the way

[Tank Girl]

Although they say opposties attract, I think it's really important to have common interests with the person your with, anyone who gave me that type of ultimatum... or any kind of ultimatum in fact... wouldn't be the type of person I would want to be with

I agree with you, parties all the way

I agree ultimatums dont work in my opinion

Mr Tank not into dancing the night away in fields so when I get the chance I go without him,
as he has come occasionally but its clear he doesnt really enjoy

There are loads of other stuff we do - festies with shared musical interests, scooter rallys, gigs etc

[feedyourheadspace]

Mr Tank not into dancing the night away in fields

IMO it's good to have some separate interests as it gives you space to do different things. Free Parties seem to have a bad rep though, so people look down on you a bit. I possibly subconsiously ended up with my partner precisely because she is not into it. I made it clear at the start what I was into and I would be dissapearing for a few weekends a year. I personally find it easier to cope with a party situation with good mates rather than someone I live with especially if they have a bad drug experience, or they get jealous (why are you lookin at her) and all that shit.

This way I go off do my thing, come back on best behaviour and its a win/win situation. We go and do common interest things together, and I give her the space to do other things she likes, without having to drag me along. As long as we trust each other it enhances the relationship. Part of the problem for me is that festivals are associated with drug use so it's an easy target when she gets stroppy.

[phogeyman]

Id choose parties . but im knocking on a bit now and have have pretty much lost my sex drive ,whereas i used to be obsessed by it !

[quietRIOT]

parties to go ..sex stays...:love:

[tekboy]

can i not just have both .to hard to make a choice:weee: :weee:

[Playground Politics]

thats not a hard one.....i have no girlfriend, hence being on here all the time

[rach]

thats not a hard one.....i have no girlfriend, hence being on here all the time

haha ive missed you adrian...

[starlaugh]

haha ive missed you adrian...

i think we have all missed Adrian and his strange ways :wink:

[Playground Politics]

i think we have all missed Adrian and his strange ways :wink:

ahhh bless u all and may allah lead you onto good place

[Palkia]

the second def

[onyx1]

parties to go ..sex stays...:love:
Good answer that:bounce_fl Saying that having both is far far better:groucho:

[Dr Bunsen]

Parties would be out and sex in...

[Arcadian]

Sex. Recently split up with the missus, but, to be honest, my judgement might be clouded as I've not got it on tap anymore...

Actually, no. I couldn't choose. It's like drugs and sex. Nah, fuck it, still sex... I can still listen to the music and dance in my house or with people, but just not at a free party... Haha. Got round that one on a technicality. Result!

[quietRIOT]

can i change my mind... ...best of both world .......raaa :wink:

[onyx1]

can i change my mind... ...best of both world .......raaa :wink:
At the same time :biggreen:

[cheeseweasel]

what is this "sex" you speak of? :hopeless:

[MrsMousebear]

hmmm, i've read the other replies, it's true you could quit parties, dance around your own front room and keep the sex, but being single i could 'please myself' and still go to the parties - win/win :wink:

[festivalgirl]

BOTH! How could you choose! :crazy_diz

[tarifa]

Nonononononononononononono!!!!!!! I'm not listening!!!!!! not givin either up an you can bite me!!!!!!!



(hey guys sorry have been away, got computer problems:yakk:)
(( an Phogeyman . . . 39 = knockin on a bit an failing sex drive?! Shame on you!))

[bluepink_clefairy]

I like sex, don't get me wrong, but I think it is way overrated and a total western civilization obsession.

I hate the whole idea of relationships now... all they are are close friendships with added sex and added shit (possesiveness, jealousy, control, seriousness, etc)... I'd rather just have loads of ultra close friendships and have fun - if attraction occurs in any, sex will happen... as sex should be fun, and not so serious as lots of people make out... but I no longer believe in committing to one person.

If the occasion occured where I DID get involved in a relationship, I would make sure I got with someone on a similar thinking level as me. There's no way ANYONE would tell me when I can and when I can't party, as life is supposed to be fun.. and if a relationship drains the fun (as many do), then what's the point??

I'd choose partying every time.

[technomaus]

if you give up free partys, can you still go clubbing ^^

meh sex is a bit warped nowadays, too much of a club and too little a matter between 2 consenting adults ^^

[One.badgerinpink]

should have both always....

i have a bloke who has probably spent more time at parties than i have but he always wants to get home to curl up at about 6 am...thats my favourite time of the morning to be at a party and i prefer to leave later on so that sometimes causes aggy behaviour!!!

[Digital-A]

what about having ya fill at a party ;)

[d.r.e.a.m]

what about having ya fill at a party ;)

thats got my vote!!!raaa