Advice on wot to do ...???

[quietRIOT]

seriously for a moment ...Eeek ...the lowdown.................................

i met this georgous man .we hit it off from go .everything in common morals principles loves hates, everything.more in common than i had with my ex ...after 4 wks of constant e mails text pics .late nite convos we met...perfect...carried on for a few more weeks then he said he had a problem he wasnt over his ex.
feelings will me had brought it all home that he still kinda loved her ....
but she was a bitch to him .....but that dont seem to matter .:cry:
he called it a day an i was guttedhe said lets be freinds ....ok................fine ..i gave him space ........
weeks passed i was hurting an we hardly spoke .....he then told me that he dont want a girlfreind just mates, then oi found out thru freinds that he i s actually still looking to meet someone . i asked him to level with me in a convo a few days later an he said yes he would like to meet someone an he says im not for him ........


no im too frickin good pal!!!raaa
hehee
ive been upset cos i really liked him .an no one has made mi feel like him ....:crazy_dru
crazy like a teenager in love
so,to take my mind off i had a mate come up from brighton we had the wknd together had a laff...talked but at the back of my mind hes there...
last nite he came on msn (the guy im into) an we talked no pressure ... he said wish es we had had sex...an he often thinks of me in that way ....then propesioned me ..would i fancy being fuk buddies ...i said wot you mean like fuk until one of us meets someone else an he said ...oohhh i dont know .....
best thing is he dont want no cheap girl...has respect for me if i say yeah ok lets do it ..hell just do it .then move along an meet someone else then i get hurt again ...:cry:
i said not a good idea..
even tho i want him sooo very bad.
an then we chatted about his health an life an stuff......i miss our talks ..an when i signed off from him he said talk soon yeah ...
my mates have gone barmy ...hes a twat they say ..he knows how you feel hes just thinking of himself.
i deleted him from msn .. a week ago as i was so upset i had to just let go ..it was hard then .he got back in touch ....
any advise would help.
dont tell me to delete him .tho again an forget him i cant .an i feel id rather have him there as a mate for now than loose him for good ....but obviously not sleep with him thatd be too easy ...dunno wot to do....:cry: mixed up ...im in love with him ......................i think.

[Angel]

Forget him April (sounds harsh i know)

But he'll just make you miserable.. Should never get involved with a person who isn't over his / her X-partner..

And as your saying..He's still looking..:crazy:

Does he mean your not good enough for him or what..:crazy_diz

What an idiot :you_crazy:you_crazy

After a divorce like the one you just have been going through,you don't need a man who really don't love you,you deserve to be happy :love:

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[Space Master]

Hi,

The main reason l'm here is cos l want to see how the music scene is coming on and if there's still such thing as rave. But l'm also here cos some girl has done something similar to me awww.

Listen April, l know there's something in the wake of your smile. I get a notion from the look in your eyes, yea. You've built a love but that love falls apart. Your little piece of heaven turns too dark.

April l want you to listen to your heart, when he's calling for you. Listen to your heart, there's nothing else you can do. Hun, I don't know where you're going and I don't know why, but listen to your heart before you tell him goodbye.

Sometimes you wonder if this fight is worthwhile. The precious moments are all lost in the tide, yea. They're swept away and nothing is what is seems, the feeling of belonging to your dreams.

And there are voices that want to be heard. So much to mention but you can't find the words. The scent of magic, the beauty that's been when love was wilder than the wind.

Ok maybe you haven't progressed as far as that last paragraph in your relationship. And er, l may have based this letter on the lyrics of a song, but you get my drift hehe.

[Digital-A]

You may well have connected with him, it seems hard to let go and you feel nobody in the world could speak to you like he could. At the end of the day i believe everybody will give the opinion (like your friends have) he's a good for nothing boy looking for what his boy like mind wants most and they dont want to see you hurt further! but whatever anybody says, advises or whatever you will always need to do what you feel is right, if it was the wrong decision you will learn, but isnt that how we grow and develop mentally?

take care and the best of luck, i dont think i helped but hey

my smiles are with you darling :-)

tomm digital

[Raj]

Argh April

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Find someone who is going to be with you for the right reasons :flowers:

You deserve a decent guy who is not messing you about and constantly changing his mind :noway:

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[quietRIOT]

thankyou .:cry: :group_hug

[Raj]

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:flowers:

[quietRIOT]

im touched....:love: truly .........................................x

[kink]

Give us his MSN and we'll bombard him with useless shit lol
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[Ellie_**]

WHAT A FOOLISH MAN!
MEN HAVE NO CLUE WHEN THEY'RE ONTO A GOOD THING.
WE ALL LOVE YOU APRIL!! :ty_ty: :group_hug

[Shit Robot]

I think good people deserve good things,you seem a good person to me,and as such from what i gather he just aint worthy,believe,there is someone out there for you somewhere,yeah it may take some time but why bother with third best in the meantime eh?:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug:group_hug

[quietRIOT]

:crazy_dru your right i know ....thanks ellie...an you lot ..xxxraaa :group_hug

[Space Master]

Get an explicit promise out of him!

[quietRIOT]

hahaha im soooo over that LOOSER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PAH HAHAHAAHA:laugh_at: :crazy_diz

[quietRIOT]

LOSER* HICCUPraaa

[Space Master]

Yay! and you've gotten your original bum back too! :weee:

[kelz_side]

your friends know what they are talking about, he obviously aint worth the heart ache ! just try and 4get about him......go out with ur mates and have a laugh ..........and most of all enjoy urself :group_hug

[quietRIOT]

orr ta.............i am...
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