Cybersex

[Angel]

Are internet/telephone-sex the same as unfaitfulness ?

[Agent Subby]

Are internet/telephone-sex the same as unfaitfulness ?

No way! I'd much rather have my bird shagging the phone or PC than me next door neighbour.:groucho: :groucho:

[chillidog]

have to say yes because if i walked in on my GF talking dirty on the phone,fairplay it isnt as bad as finding her on top of some bloke,but it would still piss me off big time just wouldnt mentally disturb me every time i looked at her :crazy_diz

[Raj]

i cant even see the bloody attraction:you_crazy

fortunately neither can the other half so no expensive telepohone bills:wink:

[Shit Robot]

never fucked a cyberman or a cyber lady for that matter though if I did would have to be the cyber-lady

[Angel]

i cant even see the bloody attraction:you_crazy

fortunately neither can the other half so no expensive telepohone bills:wink:it wasnt the question

[Raj]

it wasnt the question

sorry :flowers::flowers::flowers:

i dont have an answer:hopeless:

[Angel]

:love:

[elretardo87]

Not quite my cup of tea.....but my best mate at school's mum was well into it.

We accidentally came across her phone bill once of £2000 mostly to either 0900 numbers or sex chat annonymous.

[wickedwreckage]

QUIET COLD FUCKIN'PHONES OR COMPUTERZ,I NEVER TRY WITH IT
UUUNNCHHHHH!!!!:head_bang:head_bang:head_bang
need smell,touch,feel warm skinz...

[SdZ]

Yes.

[Chemical Brother]

it is a form of cheating if your other half keeps it from you, but it could also be used as a vent to let out som sexual frustration between partners. if you are having cyber sex as a cuple it aint really cheating as your partner is involved and it may also improve your sex life with your partner as it may open up areas that you never realised existed therefore increasing your adventurous sides, which may lead to more openness in the bedroom.


thats just my oppinion tho

peace.

[globalloon]

it's cheating in a way

like watching porn behind your partners back

you should be open and honest about your needs, physical, sexual and spiritual with your partner, or why bother?

[Dr Bunsen]

http://www.zoovip.com/files/5bbd84e9b84da9e9db0eedfb255c2fb8.wmv

[Angel]

:laugh_at: :laugh_at: lol

[kaito]

http://www.zoovip.com/files/5bbd84e9b84da9e9db0eedfb255c2fb8.wmv


Hee hee - most h'amusing!



As for the question - no I don't think it really is - even if you conceal it from your partner its still just a fantasy rather than doing anything with a real person so still doesn't really constitute cheating as such - as has been said before its really only the same as watching porn.

["Sound-Guy"]

No way! I'd much rather have my bird shagging the phone or PC than me next door neighbour.:groucho: :groucho: good answer

[quietRIOT]

how can it be the same....phone sex is well good you get get all flustered an horny without being touched....it good yah

[quietRIOT]

i ll correct that...sex *what i remember of it* is well good ...phone sex can be naughty fun...to *see above *:crazy_diz

[Angel]

sex *what i remember of it*

I totally understand what you mean :hopeless: :hopeless:

[quietRIOT]

hehee! good things cum to those who wait...cuse the naughty pun * :groucho: :yakk:

[Angel]

:groucho: :groucho: :groucho: sure hope it will be soon..

[isla]

I think that if its kept as a secert from the other partner then it is cheating, but then again if you are keeping secrets in a relationship theres something wrong with it anyways!!!

But if both partners were to know about it and maybe both do it, either together or apart then its just an extra bit o fun in ya sex life!!

[Shit Robot]

Well said!raaa

[Shit Robot]

I wish my F***** dogs (I mean that literally) had engaged in phone sex,we woke up to a Sttafordshire push me pull you terrier on the bed this Morning.:yakk:

[Raj]

shut them out of the room at night? :groucho:

[Shit Robot]

My Daughter wakes up well early and lets em in!!

[Raj]

My Daughter wakes up well early and lets em in!!

snib bolt on the back of the door :groucho::groucho::groucho: or babygate to keep the dogs out....:weee:

[david616098]

yes as long as you are not doing it with your girlfriend then its cheeting.
sex is sex be it phone sex cyber sex or actual sex its all being unfaithfull

[quietRIOT]

Oooh shit !

[the rev]

I wish my F***** dogs (I mean that literally) had engaged in phone sex,we woke up to a Sttafordshire push me pull you terrier on the bed this Morning.:yakk:

You got puppies?

[Shit Robot]

Possibly! bit early to know if shes taken yet,early signs look promising though,Want one ? if she has some:groucho::groucho:

[!sinner69!]

I have to ask Liloo (my amstaff), she is the only girl I have at the moment...but I think she dont mind:bounce_g: hmm...cheating is just a question of trust....for some it is not, others it is....never a simple answer to a simple Q:hopeless:

[DaNcInGalaxie]

ooo well..i dunno..spose it is.

tbh if my bloke was telling sum other girl how he would want to do this n that(sexual things) id be heart broken n feel neglected,i dont like to share,id rather ,if they went lookin elsewhere, have them tell me,so i could do the SAME.

this bird aint no bird in a cage.

[marapets]

have to say yes because if i walked in on my GF talking dirty on the phone,fairplay it isnt as bad as finding her on top of some bloke,but it would still piss me off big time just wouldnt mentally disturb me every time i looked at her :crazy_diz

i agree it is cheating id dump her ass!!

[USE]

no, i have a few secrets from my missus, none of them that dark, but i dont think that in a healthy relationship you neccessarily have to tell each other everything. it depends on the couple.

[quietRIOT]

i agree ....:crazy_dru

[starlaugh]

If my bird was telling some bloke how she would screw him etc i wouldnt be best happy!

[AJS]

Sex is sex and having a wank is just for fun.
I think phone/internet sex is just a dfferent kind of porn. It's totally impersonal and unemotional. Just a fun way of releiving tension.

[tarifa]

it's cheating in a way

like watching porn behind your partners back

you should be open and honest about your needs, physical, sexual and spiritual with your partner, or why bother?

So ur saying its not the act that makes it 'cheating', its the deceit? Was that the original question?

I think if you know your partner would be upset then yes its cheating because there's intent, however I also think that you are in the wrong relationship

[globalloon]

So ur saying its not the act that makes it 'cheating', its the deceit? Was that the original question?

I think if you know your partner would be upset then yes its cheating because there's intent, however I also think that you are in the wrong relationship

i'm not going to go into my sex life on here but i'm definitely not in the wrong relationship :wink:

call me old fashioned, but if i overhead my missus on the phone to a stranger talking about sex for kicks, then i'd feel like i was in the wrong relationship...

masturbation and fantasy is one thing, but using other people for sexual gratification is a different thing all together (unless that's what you're into. i'm not into that)

[tarifa]

i'm not going to go into my sex life on here but i'm definitely not in the wrong relationship :wink:



No offense meant Glo, I may not have been clear . . . I wasn't saying you as in you, I was saying you as in people, forgive my inaccuracy :wink:

I believe in respect and honesty above all else.

I feel that every person has their own needs and desires and that they will be fulfilled in the right relationship. If you are truly close with someone would you not want to understand them in this one of the most personal of things, and they you? Its a mark of respect and trust to be truthfull and supportive yes?

As long as its between consenting adults anything should be alright, however alternative, and it isn't up for being judged by outsiders

So in my book cybersex isn't cheating if your partner knows about it and is ok about it, but if its done deceitfully that's different.

I think too many people are in relationships where they don't feel they can be honest about their sexual desires; fear, shame, ridicule etc which I think is a great pity and a source of much sadness

[globalloon]

have to agree with that, tarifa

got to get your rocks off. no point hiding how you like to do it :weee: