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#76
27-12-2007, 03:43 PM
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Not unless phone sex counts.
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#77
31-12-2007, 06:42 PM
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Sometimes I regret getting in my current relationship with my boyfriend now of almost 18 months. I spent a huge chunk of my teenage life with him, and sometimes I regret it. Sometimes I wish that I could have experimented more sexually.. I don't know if it's really worth it, I just wish I had gotten more out there before commiting to this relationship. He's 5 and a half years older than me, so I guess one can say that he's experienced more sexually than I have during his teenage years, so he doesn't understand. Just being a typical teenager, I guess I have been tempted to cheat..  --- Peace.Love.Unity.Respect  *_Ninabutt_*
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#78
02-01-2008, 09:13 PM
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I think its normal to be tempted ;) its the not acting on it that counts
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#79
02-01-2008, 09:27 PM
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i have twice .. both when i was yonger .. and would never do it now as i know what it feels like ... the first time was with an ex-gf after i found out she had cheated ..i guess kinda in revenge .. i wouldn't of done it but it was like the third time that she had cheated on me ... we didn't last long after that .... the second time was realy silly ... i had just met my gf .. like the day b4 and was drinking a hell of a lot at the time .. tbh i dont even think i had spoke to the girl i was suposed to be going out with for more than 5 minits lol... well the next day i got realy fucking pissed and was chatting to some girl i knew at my local skate park .. and she asked me if i wanted a shag .. so i said yes ... then my gf was just round the corner with her m8 .. her m8 walked round the corner and caught us shaging and hit my over the head whith her shoe .. and siad if you wanted to sleep with "name" then you should of just asked she would of ... and told me i was out of order doing it whilst i was with her .. so i went trousers half way down my legs and finished it with her and went back off with the other girl and carryed on..... bad i know .. but tbh i wasn't even going out with the otehr girl in my head as i had known her for about 24 hours and we didn't even know each other .. but as i said .. i was young and very pissed at the time ... i would never do something like that now i apreciate other peoples happyness too much...even if i didn't see it as a proper relation ship ..i think she did so was inconsiderate to say the least
--- "we all have problems, it's how we deal with them that defines who we are!" "People must begin to help one and other - we must begin to care!" "You're scared of mice and spiders, but oh-so-much greater is your fear that one day the two species will cross-breed to form an all-powerful race of mice-spiders who will immobilize human beings in giant webs in order to steal cheese" Messing around with all theese chemical rushes .. when natural highs come a whole lot cheeper!
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#80
07-01-2008, 06:57 PM
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If I was your girl at the time, I wouldn't know whether or not to slap you across the face, or shake your hand. XD
--- peace. love. unity. respect.
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#81
07-01-2008, 07:36 PM
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#82
12-02-2008, 03:55 PM
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--- Last Night was an A1, tip-top, clubbing, jam fair. It was a sandwich of fun, on ecstasy bread, wrapped up in a big bag like disco fudge. It doesn't get much better than that. I just wish that I could control these *fucking mood swings!* www.pillreports.com Last edited by Raj; 13-02-2008 at 05:40 PM..
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#84
11-03-2008, 04:11 PM
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I haven't reason being is i am a terrible lyer and i couldnt hurt hurt someone like that i have been cheated on quite a few times i think its one of the worse feelings every and i couldnt put any one through that.
Besides if you can sleep with someone behind your partners back you dont love them or respect them so maybe you should just leave and then do what you want --- Quando omni flunkus maritatus.
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#86
11-03-2008, 05:12 PM
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yeah you got the right idea m8 ... as i said i cheeted twice in my life .. and regret it alot .. enev tho i am not the same person i was when i was younger .. i still feel like a bit of a bad person for doing it .. even tho i feel justifeyed in one of the two cases ... still it's happened to me and it fucking hurts .. so it's a lame thing to do to some one realy .. and i would never put some one throught that now .. as i have had my heart broken a few times my self and it ain't nice
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#87
08-04-2008, 04:36 PM
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I have but i was young stupid, since then iv been single so iv never had to think about it. I would never repeat shit like that again though, especially if he/she doesnt deserve it and i really think once you've cheated nothing can be the same again, they may forgive you but i found i couldnt forgive myself, even though i told him as soon as it happen.
its horrid.. dont risk it. --- "I though MDMA was a bank, now I know better"
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#88
02-01-2009, 06:29 PM
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We are all tempted to experience fresh meat. I think just about everyone would have feelings of 'Lust' for another person while in a solid relationship with someone. It's totally natural to find someone else attractive of course, but the factor that makes a girl a Woman, a boy a Man, is the Will they have, the strength to NOT CHEAT on their partner. I believe people cheat because they are weak minded, they are in abusive relationships, or are really bored with each other, even if they are married; Don't cheat on your partner, just break up so the GUILT doesn't eat up your insides!!!!! I have stories of people I know that have cheated, and brought back an STD to their gf or bf. That sucks like hell! Cheating in my respect is disastrous, No one wants to be cheated on, so why would you do it on your partner??
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#89
03-01-2009, 01:57 AM
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Only when it's all been unofficial or not serious.
And I felt AWFUL after, even if I liked the person I was cheating with. Bad times bad times.
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#91
07-02-2009, 01:12 AM
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i have kissed a girl while i had a gf i confessed it about a week later and luckily i was forgiven not really sure if that counts as cheating but i felt really guilty after that i just thought what's the point i could see how upset she was.
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#92
09-02-2009, 02:44 PM
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Never. I've had open relationships in the past but if I'm in a monogamous relationship then I'm totally faithful. More than anything I would be so ashamed of myself to break that trust, it just shows a total lack of respect for yourself and your partner.
---  "Today, a young man on acid realised that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively. There is no such thing as death, life is only a dream and we're the imagination of ourselves."
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#94
01-03-2009, 10:50 AM
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I cant cheat when its come to sexual relations because I would never put my self in that situation of making promises I might cannot keep in the heat of the night....for me cheating is much more than where I put my dick. As far I see this is a sexual dogma that comes from christianity, FUCK that! I look at this as punishment... Things happens when fingers touch and bodies meets that aint allways to be controlled... Cheating for me is when you start to plan things with others than your partner. Then it is time to pull back a have look at what you got.
All this is experince from my life ....I have been married and fooled around, but my next girlfriend I made it clear from the start that I wont make this promise to not to jump in the bed with others, she gave me that freedom, the strange thing was, I never used it... So you might look at it as symtom of sumtin might need to be fixed when you start to fool around, then again others get inspiration that way, the french thinks its natural.... The animal world do not give a good answer to whats natural either, just look at seagulls and dowes, some pair for life, others jump around and others again jumps around and stick with same partner anyway... So it all comes down to personality and honesty. Be clear from the start, whats the outer limits of what you can live and prosper with. It has to be a balance in there somewhere or the partnairship is just bullshit. But most of all; the freedom you claim, have to be free to others as well. Then again as life passes you might get other answers, nobody said it was easy, ehh? --- 
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#95
05-03-2009, 03:24 AM
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Yes, I did it once.
I fall out of love with my present partner that time. I had a hard time telling him that I do not want to be with him anymore. Last edited by Angel; 05-03-2009 at 05:25 AM.. Reason: deleted link
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#96
05-03-2009, 05:44 AM
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#100
14-04-2009, 04:33 PM
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I've never cheated but I have indulged a married girl seeking something else.
Looking back I know it was wrong and I would hate for someone to take my girl away from me. In my (pathetic) defence, she said she and him were 'seperated' so it was ok. Anyway, it only lasted a few months and now she's happily divorced and pursuing her own interests. Did I help or did I hinder? I don't know, nor will I ever. But she's happy and I think that's all that matters. If it's going wrong you have to find an outlet for that pain. I was clearly the release my partner desired at the time and since then she's gone on to split from her partner, attend university and learn to love life again. I've spoken (briefly) to her since then and she is so much more content with her lot in life. At the time I thought she loved me but in hindsight I know what was actually going on and I'm so glad she managed to break free from a depressive relationship, even though I would never be a part of her future. C'est la vie uh! --- "What is this? Another ultimate weapon?" "You could say that." [Turns on TV's with remote] http://waxdj.com/djs/6561/
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