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Old 02-04-2009, 07:12 PM
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So Bored with my Life.

Seriously bored, my jobs boring, my life is boring, everything is boring! I ain't unhappy or sad or nothing just proper bored with my life. Doing the same shit all the time is getting really old now, I'm even finding drugs to be a bit shit now, i don't get the same high i once did and the comedowns are getting worse. Also i now realise i'm 25 and haven't accomplished anything decent with my life.

I'm seriously considering joining the army now, I know i failed the navy test last year but have been doing a bit of studying lately plus i'm fitter than i've ever been in my entire life, I am quite confident i can get in. I'm due to see an army careers officer in two weeks time so hopefully they'll have something decent to offer me. Also i have been thinking I'd like to travel the world for a while but owe too much money so that rules that one out, at least for a couple years anyways.

Has anyone else ever experienced these sorts of feelings before and if so how did you remedy it?

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Old 02-04-2009, 07:59 PM
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Seriously bored, my jobs boring, my life is boring, everything is boring! I ain't unhappy or sad or nothing just proper bored with my life. Doing the same shit all the time is getting really old now, I'm even finding drugs to be a bit shit now, i don't get the same high i once did and the comedowns are getting worse. Also i now realise i'm 25 and haven't accomplished anything decent with my life.

I'm seriously considering joining the army now, I know i failed the navy test last year but have been doing a bit of studying lately plus i'm fitter than i've ever been in my entire life, I am quite confident i can get in. I'm due to see an army careers officer in two weeks time so hopefully they'll have something decent to offer me. Also i have been thinking I'd like to travel the world for a while but owe too much money so that rules that one out, at least for a couple years anyways.

Has anyone else ever experienced these sorts of feelings before and if so how did you remedy it?

No stupid answers please.
i get this feeling quite alot and im only 19 so i cannot relate 2 ur more intense feeling... but cliffy in the army id miss yoooou babyyyyy


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Old 02-04-2009, 08:02 PM
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I got sick of the people I hugn around with who did nothing but take drugs and rip into everyone else from the music scene I was with, I got sick of the drugs, of pissing everything up the wall every weekend and I realised I was going nowhere. I pulled myself together long enough to manage a phonecall to a school and I applied to be a teaching assistant with special needs kids (autism). Changed my life, suddenly other schools were interested too. I sort of went backwards when I moved to Glos, won't bother explaining, but I know I can do it now and once the toddler is at school I'll have the confidence to start again. Hope this helps, but I gained some direction and purpose from doing that (with a little push from a friend back then).

Afraid I'm stuck in limbo again at the mo though! But thats single motherhood for ya.
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Old 02-04-2009, 08:10 PM
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Has anyone else ever experienced these sorts of feelings before and if so how did you remedy it?
yep - and it got remedied for me by my Civil Service position being downsized (ironically due to budget cuts caused by the war!) I had to find a new career and then got offered a job by one of my extended family so had to move to Ipswich (I didn't come here for the fun of it )

was a very steep and intense learning curve and TBH it (sort of) weaned me off getting trashed every weekend - thats not to say I've given up completely but its made me realise whats most important in life...
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Old 02-04-2009, 08:13 PM
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I'd miss you as well maximo!!

But yeah dj, i think i need to do something like that, as i said i'm not unhappy or nothing like that, I just feel i could be doing something more worthwhile with my life, I actually quite like the idea of helping people, makes me feel quite good about myself!

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Old 02-04-2009, 08:35 PM
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I actually quite like the idea of helping people, makes me feel quite good about myself!
it has its ups and downs but its cool
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Old 02-04-2009, 10:31 PM
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Seriously bored, my jobs boring, my life is boring, everything is boring! I ain't unhappy or sad or nothing just proper bored with my life. Doing the same shit all the time is getting really old now, I'm even finding drugs to be a bit shit now, i don't get the same high i once did and the comedowns are getting worse. Also i now realise i'm 25 and haven't accomplished anything decent with my life.

I'm seriously considering joining the army now, I know i failed the navy test last year but have been doing a bit of studying lately plus i'm fitter than i've ever been in my entire life, I am quite confident i can get in. I'm due to see an army careers officer in two weeks time so hopefully they'll have something decent to offer me. Also i have been thinking I'd like to travel the world for a while but owe too much money so that rules that one out, at least for a couple years anyways.

Has anyone else ever experienced these sorts of feelings before and if so how did you remedy it?

No stupid answers please.
m8 i am the same .. that's half the reason i am so silly .. just tring to entertain myself lol ...

best remidy .. do diferant things allll the time ... like you see an advert for go carting .. book it up ... you see a skate board in a shop .. take up skating ...

these things may only entertain you for a little while and then you back to your old bored self .. but the trick is to fill your life with so many new things then every thing is new and entertaining .. so your never bored ..


with regards to the job .. you just got to get a new one ..


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Old 02-04-2009, 10:33 PM
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best remidy .. do diferant things allll the time ... like you see an advert for go carting .. book it up ... you see a skate board in a shop .. take up skating ...
ur a fucking legend!

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Old 02-04-2009, 10:40 PM
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Depends on who you are I guess.

Lots of diffent ways to feel fulfilled that fit different people.

Figure out what you want to accomplish in your life and do it.
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Old 02-04-2009, 10:51 PM
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ur a fucking legend!

you see a webcam that can turn u into a dinosaur, you buy it
your face made me crack up when you noticed that
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Old 02-04-2009, 11:11 PM
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your face made me crack up when you noticed that
hahahahaha i bet!!!!
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Old 03-04-2009, 12:15 AM
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I'm already bored with doing my degree. Essays, deadlines and being around loads of people who think that a jungle night is fancy dress (I kid you not) is doing my head in. Just gotta stick it out though, cos where am I gonna find a job in this economic climate?

Good luck with the armyy stuff! And things might seem better once it's summertime! That's what I'm hoping anyway :)
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Old 03-04-2009, 12:22 AM
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Just gotta stick it out though, cos where am I gonna find a job in this economic climate?
Become an economonist?
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Old 03-04-2009, 12:25 AM
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Old 03-04-2009, 05:03 AM
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Also i now realise i'm 25 and haven't accomplished anything decent with my life.

But you have accomplished something Cliffy

You make people smile and laugh, and the way the world look today that's a big accomplishment.

You might not have saved the world, but you in yourself make it a nicer place to be in.

Live every day as if it's your last, and get as much as possible out of it.

You're a good guy and I for one will miss you if you join the army, but if it's what you feel will make you happy you should..

Think everybody have felt like you do but I don't think there are a remedy

wish I could say something that would make it all better, but im afraid I can't :(


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